Sorry Manners: Civility and Incivility in the Scene – Part II

Friday, March 13th, 2009

From: Leather Journey by Chris M (Black Rose) and Lady Medora (NOPE) In fairness, we don't want to suggest that leatherfolk are inherently rude people. The scene, as wonderful as it can be, contains many subtle and seldom discussed "stress factors" that contribute to uncivil behavior. Like water over a stone, these ...

Info Out: Leather Leadership Conference Scholarships

Tuesday, February 3rd, 2009

LLC XIII - 2009 Scholarships now available! The board of the Leather Leadership Conference, Inc. is pleased to announce that it is offering 15 full scholarships to cover the cost of registration to the up-coming LLC-XIII in Atlanta, the weekend of April 3-5, 2009. Applications are accepted until February 24. Those ...

Where to find me in 2009…

Friday, January 16th, 2009

Barely into the New Year and I've got many a plan up my sleeve already. Which surprises even me given the events of the fall. In September I had major surgery (I was sick when I was at the conference) and have just returned to work now. But I'm still being ...

Humour: The lazy haughty submissive

Friday, January 16th, 2009

I found this on a forum I belong to: Dark Connections, which is an online Yahoo group for Black and PoC practitioners of BDSM and their allies. A lot of folks here attend the Annual Black Beat Conference every year. Anyways... this is particularly timely given some of the conversations I've ...

Thursday, January 15th, 2009

A Weekend Event for LeatherWomen all past, present and future women of any orientation or experience level welcome http://canadianmayhem.com/

Humiliation in the soul

Friday, January 9th, 2009

Went to a gathering this week and re-met the most interesting woman. She put me onto a group at Fetlife based on a conversation we were having: http://fetlife.com/groups/179/group_posts/37280 Curious about other people's connection to humiliation and degradation. My contribution to the thread is basically as follows:

Twitter to LiveJournal – Can’t they get along?

Sunday, January 4th, 2009

OK. So I can post from my cell to my Twitter account and twitter will post to my Facebook. And what I want is my Twitters to post to my LiveJournal account. 'Cause ya know.... typing into a journal just isn't me. I think big thinks all day long. They ...

Pushing Twitter to LiveJournal

Sunday, December 21st, 2008

A friend said: "why don't you post to your LiveJournal?" Which is a valid question since I'm kinda anti-lurker, ya know? And I replied: If I could Twitter via phone and have that post to there, you'd see some content." So then she hooked me into phone Twittering. But she didn't know how ...

Info out: A club for Transmasculine people

Thursday, December 4th, 2008

La Fraternitié du Loup-Garou http://lagarou.org La Garou is a levi/leather club whose main focus is transmasculine people who were born female or intersexed and raised female but whose gender identiy is masculine. It is also for people who are interested in showing support for transmasculine people in the leather community.

Online time wasting goes kinky

Wednesday, December 3rd, 2008

OMFG I'm not admittng where I got this crazy link to a game that features a dom and her sub travelling through a dungeon, whipping their opponents and collecting various toys fo extra life and for use as weapons... http://www.adultswim.com/games/game/index.html?game=dungeons Loving it and the sound effects too...

Info out: Semi-Annual Server Training Workshop by NorCal Tea Society

Tuesday, December 2nd, 2008

Semi-Annual Server Training Workshop by NorCal Tea Society WHAT: Intensive hands-on server training for the tea parties hosted by the NorCal Ladies Tea and Discussion Society. WHEN: Sunday, January 18, 2009

A Place Where Race and BDSM Intersect

Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

I've been screaming about the intersection of race and BDSM for a bit (not as loud as some though!) Even at this past weekend's event I brought it up. No surprise when it came to the response of the participants. One of the presenters, Rope, who is Native American, lobbed ...

How to tell people that they are racist

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

LOVE this: http://www.illdoctrine.com/2008/07/how_to_tell_people_they_sound.html A wonderful video. I stole the link from a friend who posted it to Facebook. Someone commented that they were confused because there was no need for the Vlogger to "act Black". I thought... REALLY?! Did you see the same video as me? GAWD. Promise I'll write about my time ...

Databases + gay marriage = FAIL

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

Here's a link to an interesting blog post that speaks about the consequences in a very geeky way. Gay marriage: the database engineering perspective There are various objections to expanding the conventional, up-tight, as-God-intended "one man, one woman" notion of marriage but by far the least plainly bigoted ones I am aware ...

Watching the American Election

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

I'm a Canadian. So I can't vote. But I did participate in the Global Electoral College: http://www.economist.com/vote2008/index.cfm This is a historical moment for the world I think. Hopefully I'm not just full of media and pop culture brain washing. I don't think so. I was born two years after, almost to the day, ...

When religion meets Lego

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

The Brick Testament is the largest, most comprehensive illustrated Bible in the world with over 3,600 illustrations that retell more than 300 stories from The Bible using LEGO [caption id="" align="alignnone" width="640" caption="The Brick Testament - Noah's Ark"][/caption] http://www.thebricktestament.com/

Play with the future of the world

Thursday, October 9th, 2008

Oh... I wish I had the focus to play this... http://superstructgame.com/

Stuff OTHER people like..

Wednesday, August 13th, 2008

Well meeting the author of the blog Stuff White People Like was very interesting. Started blogging January 8, 2008 and had a printed book by June 6, 2008. More abut that another time. He did mention that all kinds of lists had sprung up in imitation. So I googled:

Stuff White People Like

Tuesday, August 12th, 2008

The author of the blog/book "Stuff White People Like" is reading at 7pm tonight at the Chapters on Robson. http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/ I'd really like to go. Interested?

Online distractions…

Friday, August 1st, 2008

Favorites of the moment: http://www.spacetime.com/ http://www.visualthesaurus.com/ http://www.miniclip.com/games/word-vine/en/ http://alanbecker.deviantart.com/art/Animator-vs-Animation-34244097