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	<title>Lady Kona, Nubian Imp &#38; Tormentrix &#187; Mostly Me</title>
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		<title>Thinking about Ritual -v- Protocol</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 09:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day I was thinking about the differences between what counted as a protocol and what was in fact a ritual. This is in part prompted by a workshop I&#8217;m doing for MVK on April 4, 2009 called D/s 101 So I was musing about a past relationship wherein I had less language than [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is it really a question of Semantics?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 06:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I&#8217;ve been reviewing and processing a couple of bad racist experiences that I had some time ago. Arguing on FetLife will do that. At one point I was having a conversation with someone and I said something like &#8220;there&#8217;s a difference between political correctness and racial awareness ya know!&#8221; Now&#8230; I probably could have [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Local Service Required</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/local-service-required/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2009 00:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Leather Life]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life support needed while working to earn the Lucre of the Realm, volunteering in community, travelling incessantly and building my empire. Have you got what it takes? PLEASE NOTE: I am currently in a long distance association with a lovely female-bodied boi. It is both personal and intimate. I am NOT looking for a lover, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Thinking about consensual adult Age Play</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/thinking-about-consensual-adult-age-play/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 03:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Thoughts > D/s & M/s]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[It has been only in the last four years or so that my notions of this type of play expanded beyond &#8220;adult baby&#8221; play (diapers, nursing, etc) and I always thought that sex was involved somehow. (Strange since my personal kinks don&#8217;t follow that kind of template.) Personally, I have never thought of myself as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why I love My Country &#8211; #1 : CBC</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/love-my-country-cb/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 07:20:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here we have CBC. A national broadcaster that really feels like the heart of Canada to me. Maybe not the whole heart, but certainly a chamber. One of the programs run on CBC Radio One on Saturday mornings is North by Northwest which has resurected a segment called Lost Childhood Books. It&#8217;s hosted by Sheryl [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Coming together at last!</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/coming-together-at-last/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 16:44:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yee Haw! This has been a been an on again off again labour for a looong time. It&#8217;s been a love/hate gathering of writing from all over the web. It was prompted, in part, by someone asking about a post I had written back in the day. Did I still have that? So I went [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Rats in the Walls</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/rats-in-the-walls/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 20:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m REALLY upset with myself. In fact, as I sat, peed, and thought a little this morning, I had this sense that this might be the THING that I take with me to my grave. I thought I had exterminated the rats I saw in my psychic house. They retreated to the walls and I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Where to find me in 2009&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/where-to-find-me-in-2009/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 11:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Barely into the New Year and I&#8217;ve got many a plan up my sleeve already. Which surprises even me given the events of the fall. In September I had major surgery (I was sick when I was at the conference) and have just returned to work now. But I&#8217;m still being a a fabulous kinky [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Twitter to LiveJournal &#8211; Can&#8217;t they get along?</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/twitter-to-livejournal-cant-they-get-along/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2009/twitter-to-livejournal-cant-they-get-along/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:29:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK. So I can post from my cell to my Twitter account and twitter will post to my Facebook. And what I want is my Twitters to post to my LiveJournal account. &#8216;Cause ya know&#8230;. typing into a journal just isn&#8217;t me. I think big thinks all day long. They distract me like shiny objects [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Online time wasting goes kinky</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/online-time-wasting-goes-kinky/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 18:44:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Culture & Community]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[OMFG I&#8217;m not admittng where I got this crazy link to a game that features a dom and her sub travelling through a dungeon, whipping their opponents and collecting various toys fo extra life and for use as weapons&#8230; http://www.adultswim.com/games/game/index.html?game=dungeons Loving it and the sound effects too&#8230;]]></description>
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		<title>And then there were NONE</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/and-then-there-were-none/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Sep 2008 21:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self-Indulgent]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[And then there were none. YAY! So much love and appreciation goes out to my core care team team. Feeling the love and feeling blessed. SP, EM, AN and KC&#8230; I have no words that are adequate. TO my Sista I could not be more grateful for a safe harbour. I looked up at K&#8212;&#8212; [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Surgery and then there&#8217;ll be&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/surgery-and-then-therell-be/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 21:05:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This time next week I&#8217;ll be waking up to my first full day with a big chunk missing. Can I be more appreciative of SP, NC, KC, EM and AN? Getting to here, which today feels like one I should spend in my new (!!!) bed, has been&#8230;. I don&#8217;t know. I have no words. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>My D/s Syllybus for BlackBeat</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/my-ds-syllybus-for-blackbeat/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[SO EXCITED! Here&#8217;s my planned schedule for BlackBeat so far: FRIDAY &#62; New Dom &#38; New sub &#8212; Goddess Lakshimi &#62; Diversity in master/slave &#38; Dom/sub Dynamics:One Size Does Not Fit All &#8212; Malik &#38; slave cathy &#62; Interrogation &#8212; master Rorie &#38; slave suzanne SATURDAY &#62; Head Fucking &#8212; Ms. Mir &#38; Sir D [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Continuing the journey into D/s M/s</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/continuing-the-journey-into-ds-ms/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 17:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Took a serious break from my learning path this year. Life indeed what happens to you while you&#8217;re busy making other plans. I committed myself at the beginning of the year to expanding my understanding, skill and network of people &#8211; locally and afield &#8211; in the area of Dominance/submission and of master/slave. I consider [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A little pain with my pleasure&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/a-little-pain-with-my-pleasure/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 04:27:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Who knew that a 60lb rabid porcupine crossed with a ball of lava trying to fight it&#8217;s way out of one&#8217;s body could be so highly resistant to tylenol3. Thank goodness that it doesn&#8217;t bung me no matter how much I eat. THANK GAWD for that. Happy Pride indeed. Here&#8217;s to days upon days of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The only conference of its kind in North America</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/the-only-conference-of-its-kind-in-north-america/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 03:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Soon I&#8217;ll be on my way to Black Beat. A conference I&#8217;ve been wanting (and fearing) to attend for five years or so. http://www.blackbeatinc.org/ I can&#8217;t wait to surround myself with black kinksters. To be able to walk into a space where I don&#8217;t have to explain so many things about how the wind blows [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Working on the Weekend</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/working-on-the-weekend/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 04:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Servicing the citizens of my municipality calls to me but the sun beckons. Awoke rather early, watched part of a movie, put parts of my house back in order, walked down commercial drive to get a coffee and a croissant filled with ham and cheese. Then I took the bus (it happened along or I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sleeping beauty fretting mightily instead</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/sleeping-beauty-fretting-mightily-instead/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/sleeping-beauty-fretting-mightily-instead/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 12:36:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I keep forgetting that in addition to chronic pain and discomfort (hence being constantly drug affected), that alien babies also cause hormonal imbalances which can lead to emotional sensitivity, mood swings, anemia induced fatigue &#8211; no, exhaustion &#8211; and insomnia among other things. While I fight denial of fact, and in many ways fear the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Yep. It&#8217;s true.</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/yep-its-true/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 00:38:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am blessed. Truly blessed.]]></description>
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		<title>So they say&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/so-they-say/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jun 2008 18:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[[emerging from the shadows of listening] I been tracking some of the writing that has appeared since I return to writing with tales of the texture that my life has on a &#8220;this is 2008!?&#8221; level. It always amazes/amuses me what people will speak to or address and what they won&#8217;t. The places/spaces/times where folks [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The butch l**es me&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/the-butch-les-me/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/the-butch-les-me/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 15:42:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do I know? &#8216;Cause the gauntlet was throw down to show up. To acquire some skills. To GET IT. And to have the courage to figure out what that meant to move through the world so that complicity is not a part of what I have to deal with in my personal life and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>This racial shit? It&#8217;s not in my mind</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/this-racial-shit-its-not-in-my-mind/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/this-racial-shit-its-not-in-my-mind/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 05:48:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Contentious was the word used. I found it curious. No had called me that before. I had to look it up to ensure that I knew what it meant: 1.tending to argument or strife; quarrelsome: a contentious crew. 2.causing, involving, or characterized by argument or controversy: contentious issues. 3.disputatious, argumentative. 4. Given to contention; quarrelsome. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mama has a Surgery date at last!</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/mama-has-a-surgery-date-at-last/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/mama-has-a-surgery-date-at-last/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 04:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I heard the news today OH BOY WHEW!Â  It&#8217;s going to be horrific and then OH. SO. FUCKING&#8230; GOOD I don&#8217;t qualify for the wait list. Looks like I&#8217;ll get fast-tracked to one of the spots in July. &#8220;TOO SOON&#8221; I said. Thinking about the Bride of Pride event in August and the dyke picnic [...]]]></description>
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		<title>All is quiet&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/all-is-quiet/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 06:55:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Silence is golden. Huh. Sometimes it speaks VOLUMES. Sometimes just fucking rude. Ticking boxes with my dull pencil&#8230;]]></description>
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		<title>Choices&#8230; I pick&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/choices-i-pick/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/choices-i-pick/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 09:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Dark Crystal. Still holds up. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.. The question is: Do you fight For what you think is right ??? Do you sit? ?? Or do you fight. ???]]></description>
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		<title>&#8216;Til my last dollar is gone</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/til-my-last-dollar-is-gone/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 17:58:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Who knew? Well a few actually. I&#8217;m stubborn. I have faith. I suckle at the teat of benefit of the doubt. I give what I ask for in return. Look, I didn&#8217;t put myself on this auction block and I&#8217;m tired of having my teef checked. Note to self: Availability DOES NOT EQUAL Capacity Presence [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Heart &amp; Soul</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/heart-soul/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/heart-soul/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 05:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Exchange continues&#8230; Mama is getting paid. Today: Lesbianism is the heart &#8230; submission is the soul One can deny the heart .. but one can not deny the soul So generous an offering to me I really respect those who root around inside themselves]]></description>
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		<title>Writing and writing and writing</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/writing-and-writing-and-writing/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/writing-and-writing-and-writing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Apr 2008 02:04:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s this interesting thread in the anonymous section of a forum I belong to. It&#8217;s about: Racism and Racialization. I was gonna post there and decided that I needed to keep my unformed stuff over here where I can keep my thoughts separate from being seen as direct responses&#8230; LOL! Hmmmm&#8230; I find it interesting [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Too much, too much, too much&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/too-much-too-much-too-much/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 20:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[. More reflection and further conversation about the D/s Dinner/salon I hosted on April 22.08 led me think a little more about this: http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion/la-oe-frost11apr11,0,7418243.story http://www.latimes.com/news/la-fg-mosley10apr10,1,7848100.story http://lolitawolf.blogspot.com/2008/04/nazi-fantasies.html http://www.slate.com/id/2188752/ And remember this: http://www.iron-rose.com/vijohnson/docs/blic2.htm All because today I had yet another communication commenting on how my personal choice of language about my personal stuff was disturbing. And once [...]]]></description>
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		<title>BodyFail</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/551/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/551/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 05:11:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My body has been failing me. Miserably. And folks keep stepping up to the plate. Even through my complete and utter lack of expectation in humanity. Which is not about bitterness. It&#8217;s about self reliance and about allowing people to operate within their capacities without guilt or obligation. My body is failing me and reducing [...]]]></description>
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		<title>GAGging on it&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/gagging-on-it/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 01:12:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[GAG. I gag and gag and gag. Sometimes I find a way to don my good girl face. Generally I look for the silver lining. I am a truth-sayer. And those who appreciate me know that. Those who despise me know that I speak to the elephant in the room and when it takes a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Payment</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/payment/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/payment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 03:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was told I would end up paying. And I did. Big fucking surprise. There are always only a handful of folks willing to stick up their heads like whack-a-moles and eventually, no matter how skilled, they get thumped. I wish I could withdraw the bounty I offered up &#8211; well &#8211; used as a [...]]]></description>
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		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/556/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 16:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lately its all about feeling intermediate in an advanced world. If I was inclined to procreation, I would be attempting to replicate. If I was a flower I would be spraying my last blast before dying &#8211; a kind of desperate flailing before a final gasp. I often use a phrase told to me by [...]]]></description>
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		<title>My 3rd Annual Sexy Sauna Bithday event</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/113/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 21:55:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[April Showers and Sweats!]]></description>
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		<title>You Are Invited to the D/s Dinner/salon #2- April 22.08</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/you-are-invited-to-the-ds-dinnersalon/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/you-are-invited-to-the-ds-dinnersalon/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 19:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[**please feel free to cross-post and distribute appropriately** Invite others to join us or distribute this link: http://tinyurl.com/3t3yw This is the first in a series of serious conversations about D/s On April 22, 2008 the second of an intended quarterly series of D/s Dinner/salons will take place. The intent is to come together to discuss [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Weary</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/weary/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/weary/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 21:10:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My mind is in a twist these days and I&#8217;m functioning on automatic. And event that is not getting the job done. My judgement is off but I&#8217;m trying to be gentle with myself. Saying things at work&#8230; saying things to the boi&#8230; sending emails I would love to recall&#8230; important actions delayed&#8230; I feel [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Body Betrayal</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/body-betrayal/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 21:14:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My collegue asked me: How do you feel? Â And lacking the strength not to unload I said: Like shit. I&#8217;m tired, and I&#8217;m scared, and I&#8217;m tired of feeling scared, and all of my emotions are TOO close to the surface. Especially, as I said to my supervisor today, when one has to function in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>My Phone</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/my-phone/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/my-phone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 17:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Off Topic - Live With It!]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Meet my phone. It&#8217;s out of focus, but **shrug** that&#8217;s what you get when you steal images of out-dated technology off the web. It probably weighs a 1/4 of a pound and in at least one inch thick and 1.5 inches wide and about 6 inches long. I hold the battery on with an elastic, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Kona&#8217;s Googlism</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/konas-googlism/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 22:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Love this. All you do is plunk in a name and hit the button. Learn important things about yerself! Behold the insanity and lack of sense! http://www.googlism.com/ Edited for sense but some good laughs&#8230; kona is a beautiful young black female cat &#8211; how sweet! kona is 75 pounds &#8211; maybe when I was 10! [...]]]></description>
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		<title>On my bedside table &#8211; OK, floor&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/on-my-bedside-table-ok-floor/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 14:02:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Culture & Community]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Education]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[books]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[The Library]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Currently I&#8217;ve got &#8211; as always &#8211; several on the go. In no particular order: 1. Black Wine &#8211; Candace Jane Dorsey 2. The Value in the Valley &#8211; Iyanla Vanzant 3. Bitch Goddess &#8211; edited by Pat Califia &#38; Drew Campbell 4. Owned, Reflections of a Submissive &#8211; Toya 5. The Ethical Slut &#8211; [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Going Deep in D/s</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/going-deep-in-ds/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2008 07:24:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Thoughts > D/s & M/s]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Conferences]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was talking last night with a dominant who had recently split with their ______ (I don&#8217;t know what the word is for their thing). And she was talking about the absence and how to be around the person would cause her to break into tears. And we talked about how those deep exchanges are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>2008 is Gonna be Great</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/2008-is-gonna-be-great/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 07:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mostly Me]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s true. Yes, there are a few things that are making Mama cranky, but for the most part I am THRILLED about the way the year has started and is rolling out. I&#8217;m not really one to record my life or thoughts, but I think that this year might be the one that will work [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How much Privilege do YOU have?</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/how-much-privilege-do-you-have/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 05:33:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Writings on Race]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Black]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[definitions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[On Being Brown]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I picked this up from a friend on a forum I participate in. This is based on an exercise about class and privilege developed by Will Barratt, Meagan Cahill, Angie Carlen, Minnette Huck, Drew Lurker, Stacy Ploskonka at Illinois State University. If you participate in this blog game, they ask that you PLEASE acknowledge their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Powerful Imprints</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/powerful-imprints/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 04:40:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Thoughts > D/s & M/s]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reflections & Ruminations]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I remember a period of time when I discovered needles. In fact, what it was was a scene where a woman was being stapled. And the gun was offered to me. And I did it&#8230; and this HUGE THING reared it&#8217;s head at me and I had to walk away. I was VERY shaken and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Outsiders: Queers of Colour in Community</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2007/22/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2007/22/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Oct 2007 05:58:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Arts & Culture]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dykes, Sapphists & Other Cousins]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[In the Media]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;d be interested to hear if anyone has feedback on XtraWest&#8217;s story that I was interviewed for: The Outsiders &#8211; Feeling invisible and invalidated by Vancouver&#8217;s white queer community Natasha Barsotti / Xtra West &#8211; Cover Story / Wednesday, September 26, 2007 Link ~&#62; http://tinyurl.com/2nlb9v I have mixed feeling/thoughts (big surprised) and have spoken at [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Talking to Mahogany&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2007/talking-to-mahogany/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2007 18:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self-Indulgent]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[1&#62; What do your BDSM scene friends call you? It depends on their relationship to me. Lady Kona, Ma&#8217;am, Kona, Mama&#8230; Imp, brat-top, scary, intimidating, sadistic, &#8230; LOL! 1b&#62; What would you like for us to call you? I think Kona would do just fine 2&#62; How old are you? Location? Race? This year I&#8217;ll [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Consentual Nonconsentuality</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2007/consentual-nonconsentuality/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2007 19:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Thoughts > D/s & M/s]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I feel like I just gained some insight into something that my boi has been trying to express to me. And something I said this morning too. I said, &#8220;I wonder how I do it.&#8221; Which was met with a blank stare by the poor creature. I don&#8217;t know how I do what I do. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Interrogation Station</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2007/interrogation-station/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 23:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was playing with C&#8212;- this weekend, in the bathtub, and a comment was made about me interrogating C&#8212;- like I had done with a mutual friend at a dinner party the night before. I said that I did not *DO* interrogation scenes and, C&#8212;- laughed at me like I was being COMPLETELY ridiculous! *blink, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Part-time D/s</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2006/part-time-ds/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2006/part-time-ds/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 04:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[D/s & M/s]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=591</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just came out of a fulltime D/s association. I released the person from service but we have managed to find a way to evolve into primary partners&#8230; (I think that is what I woudl call it&#8230;). The language and details are still really weird. There is still a recognition that I am the dominant [...]]]></description>
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		<title>SNOW in Vannie</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2006/460/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Nov 2006 21:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Off Topic - Live With It!]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh how I miss the stuff. Living in Vancouver gets pretty tired weather wise. As a Prairie girl I miss all the things one can do with snow. And i miss thunder and lightening and i miss the Northern Lights&#8230; Last night at about 12:30 am C__ and I went out into the snow and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>VoicePrints</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2006/voiceprints/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Aug 2006 06:07:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was asked about how I make my mark with my voice. I know I can give good phone. But I think I make my print through my eyes really. They are the part (I believe) that does the work. Voiceprints&#8230; I&#8217;ll have to think more about that&#8230; It&#8217;s interesting. &#8216;Cause it&#8217;s about volume and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Top Drop</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2006/top-drop/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2006/top-drop/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2006 04:26:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Actions > BDSM]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I drop, I become, crabby and irritable and non-communicative. I don&#8217;t want anyone around me and I don&#8217;t want to talk to anyone in person or on the phone. It&#8217;s kinda like a bad depressive state. I wanna drink, I wanna sleep and I wanna watch bad TV with junk food. Now that I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Size means nothing</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2005/size-means-nothing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2005 18:17:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m smallish in size (5&#8217;1&#8243; and 160 lbs) But I&#8217;m big when it comes to torment! Being small means that there are times when F/folks underestiment what I am capable of. On the other hand, there are times where I steadfastly insist that because I&#8217;m little&#8230; there&#8217;s Ab-sol-lute-ly No-thing to be afraid of&#8230; heheheheh&#8230; &#8220;I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
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