OMFG this is hilarious!

It’s also a little creepy.

http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.wordpress.com/

What do you think?

 

from The Alternet

Becoming a Black Man

As more people of color transition between genders, the ways that racism is different for men and women come to the surface.

Louis Mitchell expected a lot of change when he began taking injections of hormones eight years ago to transition from a female body to a male one. He anticipated that he’d grow a beard, which he eventually did and enjoys now. He knew his voice would deepen and that his relationship with his partner, family and friends would change in subtle and, he hoped, good ways, all of which happened.

What he had not counted on was changing the way he drove.

Within months of starting male hormones, “I got pulled over 300 percent more than I had in the previous 23 years of driving, almost immediately. It was astounding,” says Mitchell, who is Black and transitioned while living in the San Francisco area and now resides in Springfield, Massachusetts.

Targeted for “driving while Black” was not new to Mitchell, who is 46 years old. For example, a few years before transitioning, he had been questioned by a cop for simply sitting in his own car late at night. But “he didn’t really sweat me too much once he came up to the car and divined that I was female,” Mitchell recalls.

Now in a Black male body, however, Mitchell has been pulled aside for small infractions. When he and his wife moved from California to the East Coast, Mitchell refused to let her drive on the cross-country trip. “She drives too fast,” he says, chuckling and adding, “I didn’t want to get pulled over. It took me a little bit longer [to drive cross country] ‘cause I had to drive like a Black man. I can’t be going 90 miles an hour down the highway. If I’m going 56, I need to be concerned.” As more people of color transition, Mitchell’s experience is becoming an increasingly common one…..more…

 

Ah…. to see myself…

Loving these galleries:
http://www.bayareawoc.com/LARRYUTLEY2.html (chemistry baby)
http://www.bayareawoc.com/LARRYUTLEY.html (pure chemisrty)

http://www.bayareawoc.com/SHILO%20MCCABE.html (**sigh**)

http://www.bayareawoc.com/REFA.html (yummy art)
http://www.bayareawoc.com/DARLING3.html (pretty in pink!)

 

I picked this up from a friend on a forum I participate in.

This is based on an exercise about class and privilege developed by Will Barratt, Meagan Cahill, Angie Carlen, Minnette Huck, Drew Lurker, Stacy Ploskonka at Illinois State University. If you participate in this blog game, they ask that you PLEASE acknowledge their copyright.

Bold the true statements.

Continue reading »

 

This is the comment I left today on Jamie Lee Hamilton’s blog posting GLBT COMMUNITY CRACKS DEEPEN :

This article by you is racist. Period. And it makes me wonder what you thought of Xtra West’s article on Queers of Colour.

I don’t automatically expect someone who is white to understand how these words, as strung together, are racist. Just as I wouldn’t expect someone who is not Trans to automatically understand the subtleties of the covert, or systemic discrimination that are experienced by that group of people. In both cases, people with no experience and unsophisticated understandings can learn, and thereby become valuable allies.
Continue reading »

 

So.

I’m hanging out with friends eating and watching TV. A show that we feel VERY passionately about.

One of the people is a QPOC. In a fit of involved rage at the character on screen who has been identified over the life of the series as being form India, the person shouts (among other things) “I hate him! He should die! Fucking Paki!”

Now. I have to say that I agree that the character should be tortured to the point of loosing his vocal cords screaming.

HOWEVER

I took the person to task. And got a VERY negative response about how they didn’t have to censor themselves in their own home and they could say what they felt in their heart and render their opinion, etc.

I pointed out that if someone white said something derogatory about him personally or about a black character on screen, I would have the same response. That I didn’t want to listen to racist remarks regardless of whose mouth it comes out of.

I waited to the commercial break, got up, and went into the next room.

Pursued I was. By a person apologizing and wanting me to say that I forgave them. I replied with thanks for the apology. Which was picked up and tossed back (accurately) that I wasn’t going to forgive and I wasn’t going to give the person a break, etc.

*sigh*

Many say and I have read that POC can’t be racist but only prejudiced. Maybe I need to get more clarity on this idea. I know that regardless of the mouth it comes from, I hate it. And when it is slurs from one POC against another… well somehow it seems more distasteful.

Comments? Suggestions for handling a situation like this? Perspectives? ETC?

 

While not everyone needs it or will agree with the definitions, here is a list that might be helpful in spuring conversation or thought…

Anti-Racism Vocabulary List
by Donna Troka and Sammy Tomato
from the IDKE-09 (Vancouver) Race Panel, October 19, 2007

This list is meant to help those who are not quite familiar with some of the lingo that is often used during discussions of anti-racism. Use this as a reference guide for yourself.

Continue reading »

 

The wonderful thing about white people or those in socially dominant power positions speaking up that I feel like I get to take a day off ’cause people are doing their own work. Thank GAWD.

More reference material:

Daily Effects of White Privilege
http://www.antiracistalliance.com/Unpacking.html#daily

How to Suppress Discussions on Racism!
http://coffeeandink.livejournal.com/607897.html

The Art of Defending Racism:
http://community.livejournal.com/sex_and_race/296541.html

Black People Love Us! – We are well-liked by Black people so we’re psyched (since lots of Black people don’t like lots of White people)!! We thought it’d be cool to honor our exceptional status with a ROCKIN’ domain name and a killer website!! http://www.blackpeopleloveus.com/

 

Reminder to self and others:

I use the word “slave” and “owner” and “master” as a convenient point of reference. I prefer “Dominant” and “Charge” and “in-service”.

Frankly, for me, as a black woman, Slave and master are pretty fucking loaded (which is not a conversation I ever hear. Does anyone else think about that?).

 

Whew!

Someone call 911. I got something burning that she could put out (or fan)….

http://www.firejock.com/

A great shot of Juliet and her wife:
http://www.rogueamazon.com/

LAWD.

 

I’d be interested to hear if anyone has feedback on XtraWest’s story that I was interviewed for:

The Outsiders – Feeling invisible and invalidated by Vancouver’s white queer community
Natasha Barsotti / Xtra West – Cover Story / Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Link ~> http://tinyurl.com/2nlb9v

Continue reading »

 

Cruise over to the link on the Tyee. There are embedded links as well as some interesting comments…

TheTyee.ca
http://thetyee.ca/Views/2007/08/30/RealBeauty/

Real Beauty… If You’re White
Unilever tells Western women they’re beautiful as is. In India, it’s a different story

[Editor's Note: Last week The Tyee ran an article on Dove's Real Women ad campaign. That piece led Munisha Tumato, a writer at Vancouver's Mehfil magazine, to pen this response.]

It’s a scene straight out of vile Bollywood.

A pretty young Indian girl approaches a fair-skinned, business-suited woman sitting behind a desk and offers a prayer for the business. “Pooja?” the woman replies, horrified. This is a modern beauty company!” As the mortified girl turns to leave, the receptionist comments snidely on the difficulties of making “these kinds of girls” beautiful.

Flash forward to the next scene: the girl walks back into the same office, but this time everyone stands in amazement. The receptionist wears a look of pure amazement and one man catches his breath and utters, “What a face….”

What is it that propelled this backward young woman into the supermodel that she is today? Simple. Before the girl wore a salwar kameez and was brown-skinned. Now she wears western clothes and has a pale face.

How did she get so white? Simple again. The girl went home after being humiliated and applied a healthy dose of “Fair and Lovely,” the single most popular skin whitening cream in India today.

Real [Western] women

Who is behind this product and this advertising campaign that tells Indian women not to be brown — or to be brown and suffer the humiliating consequences? Skin care giant, Unilever, that’s who.

Yes, that’s right, Unilever. The same company responsible for Dove and Dove’s “Real Women” campaign, an advertising venture that has garnered international attention and kudos for using women with curvy parts and wrinkly parts and saggy parts in its ads.

“Real women, real curves!” shouts Dove. Go ahead, Western women! You have our permission to be yourselves!

But for Indian women, it’s a different story. Unilever runs its skin-whitening ad campaigns in India like state-issued propaganda. The Fair and Lovely brand is as prevalent in the Indian female psyche as Coke ads are in the average North American teenage mental wasteland.

“They advertise skin lightening so much that it’s just there in the back of your mind,” says Neetu, 32. “You see so much Fair and Lovely out there, so you sort of just pick it up with the other things [you're buying] and you don’t even think about it.” Neetu is a mother of three, who emigrated from India and now lives in the Lower Mainland. She used Fair and Lovely whitening products for about four years.

What’s more is that by claiming that a whitening cream can increase your chances of being happily married and financially successful, Fair and Lovely appeals to the most vulnerable (and usually the darkest) segment of the India population: poor and often uneducated women for whom a leg up, by any means necessary, is a highly desirable proposition.

‘Colonial Hangover’

For Indian woman, fairness is next to godliness. Indian girls are taught from a young age that fair and lovely go hand in hand; a complexion a couple shades lighter could mean the difference between a successful marriage and career, and a lifetime of dismal failure.

Darker Indian girls are continually berated for their darkness and compared to lighter-skinned kin. Call it a sort of colonial hangover — a psychological effect collectively affecting a group of people conquered throughout their history by fairer folk from Europe and the Middle East.

“I don’t think Unilever invented this sexist bias in society but they are certainly exploiting it,” says Aneel Karnani, professor at the University of Michigan’s Ross School of Business. Karnani has been vocal about his distaste for Unilever’s India ad campaign in his research and writing.

“A few years ago, the dominant message of these ads was that, as a woman, you had to be fair in order to get a husband, and that’s pretty bad in itself,” he says. But these days, more and more the message is that you have to be fair to get a job. That, I think, is much worse. Romance you can claim is based on looks, but why would a job be based on your looks?”

‘No more than a sun block’

The real piss of it though is that there is no readily available proof that Fair and Lovely actually works. Most dermatologists will tell you that making your skin lighter than its natural tone is impossible without the help of harsh chemicals like mercury and hydroquinone. Those same experts agree that Fair and Lovely — which does not contain harsh chemicals — acts as no more than a sun block.

But Unilever can afford to be hypocritical. Skin lightening products are by far the most popular product in India’s $318 million skin care market. Fair and Lovely, meanwhile, commands over half of that.

The skin whitening business is so lucrative that several skin care companies have launched new whitening products targeted at Indian men. The most popular? Fair and Handsome, produced by Emami and advertised like Fair and Lovely: by telling brown men that fair women will only love them if they are fair themselves.

‘Fair skin is like education’

Unilever (and subsidiary Hindustan Lever) make a big deal about being a “socially responsible” company. The company claims that 90 per cent of Indian women want to use Fair and Lovely because it is “aspirational… fair skin is like education, regarded as a social and economic step up.”

When Karnani questioned a representative of the company about their social responsibility, he was told that Unilever was simply giving Indian women what they want. A very capitalist argument, says Karnani, for a company that pats itself on the back for its social responsibility to the “real women” in the West.

Skin whitening cannot be equated with tanning or thinness either, says Karnani, because both are achievable, to a certain extent, without causing major harm (and there are reams of information and support for women who do cross the line.) On the other hand, to successfully de-pigment the skin is a highly dangerous procedure that no sane dermatologist would ever recommend, let alone endorse.

Empowerment: Not for sale

In India, apparently, it is still acceptable to flaunt the reeking-of-colonialism argument that when it comes to beauty, white is right. And as a brown woman, I’m tired of this self-loathing trussed up as “empowerment” and sold hand over fist by corporations out to make a buck.

“Empowerment” is not an ethical marketing tool anymore than shame is. White and brown alike, how we ever allowed ourselves to be convinced that beauty had to be bought in a tube or bar is beyond me. The truth is that empowerment is nothing a corporation can sell you. Empowerment comes from knowing that beauty is confidence and acceptance of self. Beauty is age and wisdom. Beauty is pride.

 

I really needed to come across this today…

Sometimes I forget how to see myself as beautiful. I forget that my curves and my colour can be sexy.

Images by Fabrice Robin – Photographer : http://www.fabricerobin.com/nude.htm

 

Sometimes I forget how to see myself as beautiful.

I forget that my curves and my colour can be sexy.

I really needed to come across this today…

http://www.fabricerobin.com/nude.htm

 

OK.

I just couldn’t resist. My agent sent this to me today. I love her.
http://www.verytasteful.com/shorts/wcgs.html

What a great little video. My guess is that he pulled these off the net. I watched it twice because I was facincated by the clothes and the locales. It reminded me of being at Gender odyssy and there was some conversation in one of the sessions about class shame/rebellion. You know… the lower classes trying to look like they have more and the upper classes trying to hide their privelage?

See Morgan? White guy commenting on other white folks. The field of commentary is NOT just for POCs but for everyone who cares to engage.

Anyine care to comment??

 

I’ve been researching *around* SecondLife because my current machine won’t let me get online. I’m curious about people’s experiences. Apparently there is more than sex, gambling a commerce going on…

I’m facinated that it seems to be full of white people, furries and robots. I’m fascinated that there are SERIOUS issues with being a brown person. A dyke I know sent me this link http://nwn.blogs.com/nwn/2006/02/the_skin_youre_.html on race interactions and visual representations. She has shared quite the story of struggle to accurately see herself and her identity reflected.

On the other hand…

How can one not visit a place where the Alzheimer Society raised $40,000US in a race held in the metaverse? The great Northern Way campus here in Vancouver has a presence; Harvard holds credit courses, and the government of Sweden has opened an embassy?

There’s a ballet troupe that performs, public art, and galleries that sell one of a kind works. It’s fascinating.

Another friend has been talking to me about some of the dyke spaces, but I’m interested to know more. Is there a place where LeatherDykes gather? Anyone else got experiences? It would be great to have some folks to hang and connect with when I finally arrive.

 

Do you have a secondlife?

What’s yer name? Wadda ya do? Beefs? Bouquets?

www.secondlife.com
http://blog.secondlife.com

“Newspapers from and about”…
http://www.secondlifeinsider.com/
http://secondlife.reuters.com/

I remember SecondLife when it was a toddler like Weblo.com. So that was… 2003 I think? Since then I have watched from a distance as it grew exponentially. See…. I have this serious online fetish… my area of “study” is the evolution of online as a public realm. Does that make sense? So I am always on the lookout for things that appear to be a convergence of ideas or spaces, or technologies, etc.

I know there are folks out there who are living it and loving it. I’m curious about people’s experiences. I’m curious about how queers are interacting in this metaverse. I know a few dykes who are there and from what I’ve been reading, there is a fair amount of social commentary and activsm occurring in addition to sex, gambling and commercial interactions.

I don’t have an account, I’ve been researching *around* SL because my current machine won’t let me  run the current versions. Reccomended is 512RAM, but I run 256. That’s what I get for being an early adopter! Got one of the first G4 laptops to hit Vancouver in 2001. Does everything I need it to and has never been sick a day in its life. But I digress. I’m shopping for one now.

Must thank the Professor for sending me the links on race interactions and visual representations. And thanks for her sharing her story of struggling to accurately see herself and her identity reflected.

I’m fascinated that it seems to be full of white people, furries and robots. I’m fascinated that there are SERIOUS issues with being a brown person.

On the other hand…

How can one not visit a place where the American Cancer Society raised $40,000US in a race held in the metaverse? The Great Northern Way campus here in Vancouver has a presence; Harvard holds credit courses, and the Government of Sweden has opened an embassy?

There’s a ballet troupe that performs, public art and galleries that sell on of a kind works. It’s facinating.

A friend of mine has been talking to me about some of the dyke spaces, but I’m interested to know more. Is there a place where LeatherDykes gather? Anyone else got experiences? It would be great to have some folks to hang and connect with when I finally arrive.

 

I often refer to myself as a child of MLK’s dream… 

The doll test. How horrifying and completely true. I remember all of this from when I was a kid. It responates. This is the persistent ingrained state of esteem when it comes to being a person of colour. No. Not for everyone. But for a lot of us.

 

I don’t have formal trainign that will allow me to define absolutely the vernacular snack “racilaized”. In my experience it has been used in a number of ways. On this thread I have mostly seen it in two contexts. One simple the other not.

1) As an alternative adjective to describe POC (persons of colour) regardless of their race or colour (shade). And no, a person’s ancestry or place of origin do not automatically play into that. The definition has more to do with visibility. Does the person look “white”. So that takes in a lot of nationalities. I’ve begun to unpack a nightmare so I’m gonna stop there for the moment.

2) I has a way to describe a particular concious mental state of an individual (regardless of colour). This involves an awareness or an attempt to understand how race and shadism is played out in the various concentric circles of locality, nationality, and globalism. It attempts to stir in history, class, gender, economics, politics, power dynamics, legal and social systems, etc.

There’s my crack at it. Hope that adds to what has been said so far.

A friend posted the following links elsewhere on the world wide web. Both are satires which reveal how certain arguments need critical thought in both presentation and analysis. I wanted to make sure I dropped them here because I think they are relevant to some of the posts that I have read.

 

I did something really fucking tough just prior to the holiday break. I told my father about these conversations and I requested books form his library. Anyone who knows me knows what an ENORMOUS thing it was for me to do that. My hands shook the whole time I wrote the email and I felt so queasy when I saw the response in my in box that I couldn’t open it for two days.

Well. Out of that I have received his work on our family tree, a book written by my relative, and several books dealing with my parents country of origin. Maybe I’ll start a bibliography link…

I had no idea he was doing work like this. I feel humbled. And grateful to myself for taking the chance to open a line of communication which has led to many sources of learning.

So that’s my suggestion to people at this moment. Take a chance and talk to your elders. there was/is no tradition of knowledge transfer or storytelling in my family due to a loooong history of silence coming out of a slave past. Am I closer to understanding who I am? I don’t know. In some ways… yes. But the family tree is pretty sketchy. Stuff related to why history – global history – is important now resonates more strongly for me.

And it brings deeper understanding to how deadly silence can be. How not knowing, not understanding, not TRYING is fucked UP.

Without some of the study I’ve been doing lately, I wouldn’t have reached out. I don’t know what will become of the initial efforts, but the results so far have been worth it.

What are you doing? What do you need help with? What have you got to share (including links, stories, proposals, etc) that might help folks move into a place of action?

© 2012 NubianImp Projects Suffusion theme by Sayontan Sinha

Bad Behavior has blocked 204 access attempts in the last 7 days.