Archive for the ‘NubianImp Projects’ Category

D/s Psychology Intensive with Lee Harrington

Monday, August 10th, 2009

Doing relationships with intentional power dynamics October 2, 3, 4 in Vancouver BC Canada Still moving the furniture are and am considering paint colours over here in my corner of the WWW. In the meantime, I'm doing this really cool thing with Elaine Miller. I'm bringing Lee Harrington into town (Vancouver, BC, ...

I’m Too Busy Being Gay

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

Looking around I said to myself the other day: Dear Laundry: You know I love your freshness when you are done, and the clean variety you offer. Without a question the site of you piled in a corner awaiting my attentions plagues my mind every time I search for something to wear. ...

Vancouver’s Bathhouse Night for Women

Thursday, July 23rd, 2009

Being a sex-positive dyke, I've moved in a lot of spaces, queer and str8 where Eros abounds. But as a woman, the opportunity to to do what the boys do isn't really available. So I made something happen in my city. And in two other cities in Canada, other women ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-05-25

Monday, May 25th, 2009

Another week. Same as others and yet one that comes with both bitter and sweet. Lots of time spent with friends and Tribe. You know.... Now that Mayhem is over I can't seem to shake the urge to do, do, do... Really nice to go to an event that I had ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-05-18

Monday, May 18th, 2009

So. The Mayhem is over and I am back to my real life. Somewhere in there, Twitter got it's act together so I'm starting to reach out that way too. *sigh* how I missed the simplicity of 140 characters... Next up: Diva's Den (a fundraiser for the Dyke March) and the annual ...

Scheduling the Mayhem

Monday, April 20th, 2009

Graciousness! Have you LOOKED at all the madness going on? I don't know about you, but I'm starting to schedule all my costume changes NOW. There's just so much to do! The full schedule of events is online now with more content being added all the time. Some of the highlights include:

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-03-09

Monday, March 9th, 2009

The week began with closing out the South Plains Master Slave conference. Glad I went. I got stories but most of them are around the culture of the place. Have to say that I expected a higher level of... well... manners. Protocol. Something.There were incidents that distressed me. And I'd like ...

Visual Hawtness

Saturday, March 7th, 2009

Loving Mayhemeven as I spin into madness with all the meetings and organizing. Did you know Mayhem has a FetLife group? This is a thing of beauty that has come out of all of this.  Elaine Miller does hot graphics work. The ass my latex gloved hand is on? A thing ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-03-02

Monday, March 2nd, 2009

What a week. All about prepping and going to to South Plains LeatherFest and International Master/slave weekend. And lots of working on Mayhem. And planning MORE things like the next D/s Dinner/salon and my fourth annual Sexy Sauna B-Day Bathouse party. I seem to just keep adding things to the schedule. The ...

Mama is workin’ the Taboo Show

Saturday, January 17th, 2009

Went to Taboo with a friend (OK, I DM'd first) and handed out cards to cute girl teams, dykes, transfolk, and lesbians. No butches yet though. No "leatherdykes". But, ya know, not all of us flag all the time. But there's time. I'm at the Taboo show all weekend scoping the crowd, causing ...

Where to find me in 2009…

Friday, January 16th, 2009

Barely into the New Year and I've got many a plan up my sleeve already. Which surprises even me given the events of the fall. In September I had major surgery (I was sick when I was at the conference) and have just returned to work now. But I'm still being ...

Thursday, January 15th, 2009

A Weekend Event for LeatherWomen all past, present and future women of any orientation or experience level welcome http://canadianmayhem.com/

D/s Dinner/salon #3

Friday, November 28th, 2008

A plan is officially afoot to do the next D/s Dinner/salon. You can expect the gathering to occur the week of December 8 in the evening - most likely a private residence. A library of D/s and M/s books will be on hand for casual perusal, along with a high level ...

Notes from D/s Dinner/salon #2

Thursday, April 24th, 2008

Tough night for me. And that's the truth not the hype. I went in feeling physically unwell and found myself being psychically attacked. Ah well... skunks have no idea about the impact on the world around them either. Which doesn't excuse but it is the fact.

Thoughts from D/s Dinner/salon #2

Thursday, April 24th, 2008

I was engaged in the second of a quarterly series of conversations: The D/s Dinner/salon. At the point that things slid sideways in the conversation for me, I was trying to respond to something that a top was commenting on around why people come to the scene (and D/s) but ...

Handing out thanks – D/s Dinner/salon #2

Wednesday, April 23rd, 2008

How amazing. I think I can safely say that folks were challenged and learned and came away with food for thought. Many thanks to all that showed up and to those who had good intent but were unable to attend. A lot of the women who attended the first one were present ...

Notes from the D/s Dinner/salon #2

Wednesday, April 23rd, 2008

One of the attendees took some notes and agreed to have them published. Wasn't that kind? There's some good food for thought in them. Questions that deserve to be answered. Tasty. Many thanks for the generosity.

My 3rd Annual Sexy Sauna Bithday event

Wednesday, April 16th, 2008

April Showers and Sweats!

You Are Invited to the D/s Dinner/salon #2- April 22.08

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

**please feel free to cross-post and distribute appropriately** Invite others to join us or distribute this link: http://tinyurl.com/3t3yw This is the first in a series of serious conversations about D/s On April 22, 2008 the second of an intended quarterly series of D/s Dinner/salons will take place. The intent is to come together ...

Notes from D/s Dinner/salon #1

Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

Here are my notes from the first session. More questions than answers... I regret that I wasn't so clever as to have included attributions. Which sucks because in both cases the knowledge in the room was humbling: