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		<title>Learning Successful D/s</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 17:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Those of us consciously walking a path of intentional and consistent D/s have come across times when we wonder about our personal capacities and those of the people with whom we have association. We seek inside ourselves, we go to conferences, read books, mentor, attend workshops, munches, review Leather history, research online and participate in <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2009/learning-successful-ds/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Thinking about consensual adult Age Play</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/thinking-about-consensual-adult-age-play/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 03:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It has been only in the last four years or so that my notions of this type of play expanded beyond &#8220;adult baby&#8221; play (diapers, nursing, etc) and I always thought that sex was involved somehow. (Strange since my personal kinks don&#8217;t follow that kind of template.) Personally, I have never thought of myself as <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2009/thinking-about-consensual-adult-age-play/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Notes: From Top Shelf</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/notes-from-top-shelf/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 17:25:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[SoÂ I go to this thing which is a monthly conversation among Dominants. Frankly, it&#8217;s among males Dominants and me. Very interesting. MEN. **sigh** It&#8217;s good because the perspective is different and as a whole this group of people has thought about things differently than I have.Â I think I have more reference points. What it does <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2009/notes-from-top-shelf/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Humour: The lazy haughty submissive</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/humour-the-lazy-haughty-submissive/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 11:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I found this on a forum I belong to: Dark Connections, which is an online Yahoo group for Black and PoC practitioners of BDSM and their allies. A lot of folks here attend the Annual Black Beat Conference every year. Anyways&#8230; this is particularly timely given some of the conversations I&#8217;ve been having lately&#8230; Ma&#8217;am, <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2009/humour-the-lazy-haughty-submissive/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Humiliation in the soul</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2009/humiliation-in-the-soul/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 18:16:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Went to a gathering this week and re-met the most interesting woman. She put me onto a group at Fetlife based on a conversation we were having: http://fetlife.com/groups/179/group_posts/37280 Curious about other people&#8217;s connection to humiliation and degradation. My contribution to the thread is basically as follows: ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I&#8217;m a dominant with a kernel of &#8220;master&#8221; <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2009/humiliation-in-the-soul/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Info out: Semi-Annual Server Training Workshop by NorCal Tea Society</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 01:58:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Semi-Annual Server Training Workshop by NorCal Tea Society WHAT: Intensive hands-on server training for the tea parties hosted by the NorCal Ladies Tea and Discussion Society. WHEN: Sunday, January 18, 2009 WHO: All genders and orientations are welcome to apply to take the training workshop. (You don&#8217;t have to be a member of the Tea <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/info-out-semi-annual-server-training-workshop-by-norcal-tea-society/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>D/s Dinner/salon #3</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/ds-dinnersalon-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 00:34:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A plan is officially afoot to do the next D/s Dinner/salon. You can expect the gathering to occur the week of December 8 in the evening &#8211; most likely a private residence. A library of D/s and M/s books will be on hand for casual perusal, along with a high level over view of the <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/ds-dinnersalon-3/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>A tool for Masters (and Dominants)</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/a-tool-for-masters-and-dominants/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2008 11:46:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This makes how many posts in one day?! YEESH! And I still haven&#8217;t written about the weekend. LOL! To come, to come, to come&#8230; Napping in the afternoon means a sleepless night&#8230; I came across this from the Ms Development Centre while doing some research and fell in love with the structured focus and commitment <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/a-tool-for-masters-and-dominants/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Leather Traditions &#8211; Weekend for Dominants Approaches</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/leather-traditions-weekend-for-dominants-approaches/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 23:33:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m starting to feel excited! My first trip to San Fran! I&#8217;ll be arriving on Thursday, November 20, for Leather Traditions, a weekend intensive for Dominants which goes from the Friday to the Sunday. It&#8217;s got an application/reference process to get in and is limited to 25 people. I think it will add greatly to <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/leather-traditions-weekend-for-dominants-approaches/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Age Play hits the bookshelf</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/age-play-hits-the-bookshelf/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 23:07:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve got Littles in my life. And I&#8217;ve been known to haul out my own pre-pubescent bad-babysitter to torment those within my focus. In February 2008 I wet to a fab session facilitated by Lee, and a woman named Satin who is also a little. Now he&#8217;s come out with a resource. Lee Harrington has <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/age-play-hits-the-bookshelf/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>My D/s Syllybus for BlackBeat</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/my-ds-syllybus-for-blackbeat/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[SO EXCITED! Here&#8217;s my planned schedule for BlackBeat so far: FRIDAY &#62; New Dom &#38; New sub &#8212; Goddess Lakshimi &#62; Diversity in master/slave &#38; Dom/sub Dynamics:One Size Does Not Fit All &#8212; Malik &#38; slave cathy &#62; Interrogation &#8212; master Rorie &#38; slave suzanne SATURDAY &#62; Head Fucking &#8212; Ms. Mir &#38; Sir D <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/my-ds-syllybus-for-blackbeat/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Continuing the journey into D/s M/s</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/continuing-the-journey-into-ds-ms/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 17:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Took a serious break from my learning path this year. Life indeed what happens to you while you&#8217;re busy making other plans. I committed myself at the beginning of the year to expanding my understanding, skill and network of people &#8211; locally and afield &#8211; in the area of Dominance/submission and of master/slave. I consider <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/continuing-the-journey-into-ds-ms/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>The only conference of its kind in North America</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/the-only-conference-of-its-kind-in-north-america/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 03:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Soon I&#8217;ll be on my way to Black Beat. A conference I&#8217;ve been wanting (and fearing) to attend for five years or so. http://www.blackbeatinc.org/ I can&#8217;t wait to surround myself with black kinksters. To be able to walk into a space where I don&#8217;t have to explain so many things about how the wind blows <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/the-only-conference-of-its-kind-in-north-america/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Medical Pornography on TV</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/124/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 04:22:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh the conversations I get into. So it came down to shows like Dexter, Nip Tuck, surgical improvement/intervention shows are feed/food. I&#8217;ve been hearing about the History Channel airing something today about the history of torture? I remember the open scene of a recent James Bond film where our hero was being tortured in a <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/124/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Notes from D/s Dinner/salon #2</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/notes-from-ds-dinnersalon-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 17:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tough night for me. And that&#8217;s the truth not the hype. I went in feeling physically unwell and found myself being psychically attacked. Ah well&#8230; skunks have no idea about the impact on the world around them either. Which doesn&#8217;t excuse but it is the fact. NOTES from D/s Dinner/salon April 22, 2008 Here are <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/notes-from-ds-dinnersalon-2/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Thoughts from D/s Dinner/salon #2</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/thoughts-form-the-ds-dinnersalon/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 09:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was engaged in the second of a quarterly series of conversations: The D/s Dinner/salon. At the point that things slid sideways in the conversation for me, I was trying to respond to something that a top was commenting on around why people come to the scene (and D/s) but don&#8217;t stay. And in my <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/thoughts-form-the-ds-dinnersalon/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Handing out thanks &#8211; D/s Dinner/salon #2</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/handing-out-thanks-ds-dinnersalon-2/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/handing-out-thanks-ds-dinnersalon-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 20:35:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How amazing. I think I can safely say that folks were challenged and learned and came away with food for thought. Many thanks to all that showed up and to those who had good intent but were unable to attend. A lot of the women who attended the first one were present and there were <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/handing-out-thanks-ds-dinnersalon-2/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Notes from the D/s Dinner/salon #2</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/notes-from-the-ds-dinnersalon-2/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/notes-from-the-ds-dinnersalon-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 18:45:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the attendees took some notes and agreed to have them published. Wasn&#8217;t that kind? There&#8217;s some good food for thought in them. Questions that deserve to be answered. Tasty. Many thanks for the generosity. &#8220;D/s is not casual&#8221; (S-d) - not done at parties, unlike S/M - may be a genuine struggle for <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/notes-from-the-ds-dinnersalon-2/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mindfucking with slimy things</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/mindfucking-with-slimy-things/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 04:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have one word: LEECHES It was cruel and terrible and fun. Would I have really done it? On some days I thought I would. But to do it I&#8217;d have to deal with the fuckers. Topping myself to mindfuck another is meeeeeeesssssed UP! Remind me to tell you the story of a certain butch <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/mindfucking-with-slimy-things/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>You Are Invited to the D/s Dinner/salon #2- April 22.08</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/you-are-invited-to-the-ds-dinnersalon/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/you-are-invited-to-the-ds-dinnersalon/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 19:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[**please feel free to cross-post and distribute appropriately** Invite others to join us or distribute this link: http://tinyurl.com/3t3yw This is the first in a series of serious conversations about D/s On April 22, 2008 the second of an intended quarterly series of D/s Dinner/salons will take place. The intent is to come together to discuss <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/you-are-invited-to-the-ds-dinnersalon/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Rape &amp; Consent</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/rape-consent/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2008 01:41:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[First I just want to clarifiy that in thinking about this, I&#8217;m contemplating the commonly understood mean of the word rape and not the thing that some practioners of BDSM &#8220;consensually&#8221; engage in. I also want to clarify, up front, that I believe the two things can over lap and coexist based on point of <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/rape-consent/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Notes from D/s Dinner/salon #1</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/notes-rom-ds-dinnersalon-1/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/notes-rom-ds-dinnersalon-1/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 04:50:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here are my notes from the first session. More questions than answers&#8230; I regret that I wasn&#8217;t so clever as to have included attributions. Which sucks because in both cases the knowledge in the room was humbling: NOTES Interval D/s - scene based - the difference between being a mermaid and taking a swim How <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/notes-rom-ds-dinnersalon-1/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Protecting Mine</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/protecting-mine/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/protecting-mine/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 07:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Questions were asked in a forum: This &#8220;protection&#8221; you have over your subs..does this include protection when they do shyt or say shyt thats not a reflection of your words or actions?? Do you allow the whips to fall on them as they may from their actions without protection? Or do you expect the respect <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/protecting-mine/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>On the Edge doesn&#8217;t have to Equal Abuse</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/on-the-edge-doesnt-have-to-equal-abuse/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/on-the-edge-doesnt-have-to-equal-abuse/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2008 05:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I go to public parties around town and before my friend -rl- got a hold of the DM team there was judgment and questioning about certain activities. Was it UNSAFE. Not always. Nope. Not at all. I actually remember a &#8220;you didn&#8217;t warm her up&#8221; admonishment.&#8221; Yeah. Oh! Did that flogger wrap? For some that <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/on-the-edge-doesnt-have-to-equal-abuse/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Intense D/s Doesn&#8217;t equal Bad Top</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/intense-ds-doesnt-equal-bad-top/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2008 01:50:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m troubled by the &#8220;bad&#8221; top talk. And the notion that most sincere people are doing the best they can at any given moment. And what about a top that wants to be true to who they think they are? I remember some shit going &#8217;round about me and my &#8220;aftercare&#8221;. Well you know what? <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/intense-ds-doesnt-equal-bad-top/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Bang 4 the Buck and D/s Archetypes</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/bang-4-the-buck-and-ds-archetypes/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/bang-4-the-buck-and-ds-archetypes/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 21:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How much fun was THAT! I&#8217;ve never been to Bang 4 the Buck. And being in the presence of over 200 women all lathered up and scantily dressed was certainly this side of heaven. Saturday&#8217;s workshop was illuminating as I have frequently found Midori&#8217;s sessions to be. And as always I am struck by the <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/bang-4-the-buck-and-ds-archetypes/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Motivating my need for D/s conversation</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/motivating-my-need-for-ds-conversation/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/motivating-my-need-for-ds-conversation/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 03:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My conversations over the past few weeks combined with the personal commitment I made to myself at the beginning of this year is moving my mojo. So I&#8217;m doing more than thinking about it. I&#8217;m putting my time and money where my desire is. I&#8217;ve booked a space in Vancouver late-April-ish and am yacking with <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/motivating-my-need-for-ds-conversation/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Community Protocols</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/community-protocols/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 01:08:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was birthed into public BDSM/kink/leather and have grown up in Vancouver. Prior to that I was practicing D/s in private in Alberta without context or community or vernacular. I just made the shit up. When I moved to Vancouver and came out publicly into BDSM, I looked around and described it to myself as <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/community-protocols/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Going Deep in D/s</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/going-deep-in-ds/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2008 07:24:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was talking last night with a dominant who had recently split with their ______ (I don&#8217;t know what the word is for their thing). And she was talking about the absence and how to be around the person would cause her to break into tears. And we talked about how those deep exchanges are <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/going-deep-in-ds/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>The wanting&#8230; the needing&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/the-wanting-the-needing/</link>
		<comments>http://nubianimp.com/2008/the-wanting-the-needing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 19:05:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[...I'm always hungry. And frequently, to take the edge off I will dumpster dive into connections which on the surface at the play party, the house party, behind closed doors probably LOOK hawt but aren't that nutritious....]]></description>
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		<title>Powerful Imprints</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2008/powerful-imprints/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 04:40:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I remember a period of time when I discovered needles. In fact, what it was was a scene where a woman was being stapled. And the gun was offered to me. And I did it&#8230; and this HUGE THING reared it&#8217;s head at me and I had to walk away. I was VERY shaken and <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2008/powerful-imprints/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Back from Leather Reign!</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2007/back-from-leather-reign/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2007 02:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Education]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=88</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So. I just came back from Leather Reign and my brain is FUCKING full. I really wish there had been folks form the boards present. The conference was primarily Theory based (*wet*) as opposed to technique. While many of the classes were of a 101 nature, thre were some damed good sessions andd a lot <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2007/back-from-leather-reign/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Consentual Nonconsentuality</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2007/consentual-nonconsentuality/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2007 19:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Thoughts > D/s & M/s]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=610</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I feel like I just gained some insight into something that my boi has been trying to express to me. And something I said this morning too. I said, &#8220;I wonder how I do it.&#8221; Which was met with a blank stare by the poor creature. I don&#8217;t know how I do what I do. <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2007/consentual-nonconsentuality/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Interrogation Station</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2007/interrogation-station/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 23:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Our Thoughts > D/s & M/s]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=596</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was playing with C&#8212;- this weekend, in the bathtub, and a comment was made about me interrogating C&#8212;- like I had done with a mutual friend at a dinner party the night before. I said that I did not *DO* interrogation scenes and, C&#8212;- laughed at me like I was being COMPLETELY ridiculous! *blink, <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2007/interrogation-station/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Absence II</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2006/absence-ii/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Aug 2006 21:59:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=53</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I spent some time with a friend hanging out tonight. It was good. I talked about the facts mostly (I think) but not hugely about how my inner landscape is doing. I think I am just numb on the inside. And when I speak of it all I feel kinda stoopid actually. I mean&#8230; I <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2006/absence-ii/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Absence I</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2006/absence-i/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Aug 2006 03:17:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=52</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Lordy. So little did I know when I released the boi that it woudl have succh lingering effects on my part. I&#8217;m feeling very unbalanced at the moment&#8230; *UGH* A friend of mine used to call the power exchange &#8220;The Golden Path.&#8221; We used to have full on arguments about things like &#8220;love&#8221; in D/s <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2006/absence-i/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>VoicePrints</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2006/voiceprints/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Aug 2006 06:07:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=412</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was asked about how I make my mark with my voice. I know I can give good phone. But I think I make my print through my eyes really. They are the part (I believe) that does the work. Voiceprints&#8230; I&#8217;ll have to think more about that&#8230; It&#8217;s interesting. &#8216;Cause it&#8217;s about volume and <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2006/voiceprints/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Top Drop</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2006/top-drop/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2006 04:26:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=367</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When I drop, I become, crabby and irritable and non-communicative. I don&#8217;t want anyone around me and I don&#8217;t want to talk to anyone in person or on the phone. It&#8217;s kinda like a bad depressive state. I wanna drink, I wanna sleep and I wanna watch bad TV with junk food. Now that I <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2006/top-drop/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Modifying BDSM practices</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2005/modifying-bdsm-practices/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2005 20:02:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=358</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been thinking A LOT about how there are lots of workshops at lots of conferences dealing with BDSM 101, 201, 301, etc. But I have never seen anything about modified BDSM practices. And that is not only from the stand point of those who are aging, but for those who have temporary, long term <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2005/modifying-bdsm-practices/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Online Training</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2005/online-training/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2005 09:24:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=322</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So.. I&#8217;ve always been interested in 1) the idea of online training and 2) interested about how people weave the power exchange long distance I&#8217;ve always been concious to NOT find myself in these situations however I have received many requests and inquiries about online training over the years, and now I find myself with <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2005/online-training/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Can a contract and Rape Co-exists?</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2005/can-a-contract-and-rape-co-exists/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2005 07:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=327</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The one thing that I see frequently happening within and without of our community is a slackness with words. I&#8217;m as guilty as any and perhaps even more so on occasion. I believe that people are entitled to their feelings and to their perceptions of situations. And in doing so, people will use the language <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2005/can-a-contract-and-rape-co-exists/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Arguing with my charge</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2005/arguing-with-my-charge/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2005 05:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=330</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Personally&#8230; I&#8217;m not receptive to my charge arguing with me. Disagreeing? Sure. Advocating a point of view? Go for it. But raised voices or confrontational language or belligerent behaviour are things I can not have in my relationship. I&#8217;ve experienced it in the past and have decided that I will not go there now or <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2005/arguing-with-my-charge/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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		<title>Wired into my sex</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2005/wired-into-my-sex/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2005 06:50:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=310</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I went through this period (hell I&#8217;m not convinced its over) where it seemed impossible, while my boi was fucking me, to cum unless I was hurting hym and hy was screaming/yelling like the police should be called&#8230; * sigh * Gotta squishy&#8230; gotta go]]></description>
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		<title>Financial Slavery</title>
		<link>http://nubianimp.com/2005/financial-slavery/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Oct 2005 09:38:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lady Kona</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://nubianimp.com/wp/?p=304</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[For years I have heard tales and read fiction about people living off of another. The real life tales tend to end badly and the fiction&#8230; welll&#8230; its fiction. And it seems on the real life ones that the person who is the recipient/taker always seems to have evil qualities. I think this must be <a href='http://nubianimp.com/2005/financial-slavery/' class='excerpt-more'>[...]</a>]]></description>
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