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Monday, August 31st, 2009
Those of us consciously walking a path of intentional and consistent D/s have come across times when we wonder about our personal capacities and those of the people with whom we have association. We seek inside ourselves, we go to conferences, read books, mentor, attend workshops, munches, review Leather history, ...
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Thursday, March 12th, 2009
It has been only in the last four years or so that my notions of this type of play expanded beyond "adult baby" play (diapers, nursing, etc) and I always thought that sex was involved somehow. (Strange since my personal kinks don't follow that kind of template.)
Personally, I have never ...
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Wednesday, February 18th, 2009
So I go to this thing which is a monthly conversation among Dominants. Frankly, it's among males Dominants and me. Very interesting. MEN. **sigh**
It's good because the perspective is different and as a whole this group of people has thought about things differently than I have. I think I have more reference ...
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Friday, January 16th, 2009
I found this on a forum I belong to: Dark Connections, which is an online Yahoo group for Black and PoC practitioners of BDSM and their allies. A lot of folks here attend the Annual Black Beat Conference every year.
Anyways... this is particularly timely given some of the conversations I've ...
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Friday, January 9th, 2009
Went to a gathering this week and re-met the most interesting woman. She put me onto a group at Fetlife based on a conversation we were having: http://fetlife.com/groups/179/group_posts/37280
Curious about other people's connection to humiliation and degradation.
My contribution to the thread is basically as follows:
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Tuesday, December 2nd, 2008
Semi-Annual Server Training Workshop by NorCal Tea Society
WHAT: Intensive hands-on server training for the tea parties hosted
by the NorCal Ladies Tea and Discussion Society.
WHEN: Sunday, January 18, 2009
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Friday, November 28th, 2008
A plan is officially afoot to do the next D/s Dinner/salon. You can expect the gathering to occur the week of December 8 in the evening - most likely a private residence.
A library of D/s and M/s books will be on hand for casual perusal, along with a high level ...
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Wednesday, November 26th, 2008
This makes how many posts in one day?! YEESH! And I still haven't written about the weekend. LOL! To come, to come, to come...
Napping in the afternoon means a sleepless night... I came across this from the Ms Development Centre while doing some research and fell in love with the ...
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Saturday, November 15th, 2008
I'm starting to feel excited! My first trip to San Fran!
I'll be arriving on Thursday, November 20, for Leather Traditions, a weekend intensive for Dominants which goes from the Friday to the Sunday. It's got an application/reference process to get in and is limited to 25 people. I think it ...
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Tuesday, August 26th, 2008
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I've got Littles in my life. And I've been known to haul out my own pre-pubescent bad-babysitter to torment those within my focus. In February 2008 I wet to a fab session facilitated by Lee, and ...
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Monday, August 11th, 2008
SO EXCITED!
Here's my planned schedule for BlackBeat so far:
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Friday, August 8th, 2008
Took a serious break from my learning path this year. Life indeed what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.
I committed myself at the beginning of the year to expanding my understanding, skill and network of people - locally and afield - in the area of Dominance/submission and ...
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Friday, August 1st, 2008
Soon I'll be on my way to Black Beat. A conference I've been wanting (and fearing) to attend for five years or so.
http://www.blackbeatinc.org/
I can't wait to surround myself with black kinksters. To be able to walk into a space where I don't have to explain so many things about how ...
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Sunday, May 4th, 2008
Oh the conversations I get into.
So it came down to shows like Dexter, Nip Tuck, surgical improvement/intervention shows are feed/food. I've been hearing about the History Channel airing something today about the history of torture?
I remember the open scene of a recent James Bond film where our hero was being ...
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Thursday, April 24th, 2008
Tough night for me. And that's the truth not the hype. I went in feeling physically unwell and found myself being psychically attacked. Ah well... skunks have no idea about the impact on the world around them either. Which doesn't excuse but it is the fact.
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Thursday, April 24th, 2008
I was engaged in the second of a quarterly series of conversations: The D/s Dinner/salon. At the point that things slid sideways in the conversation for me, I was trying to respond to something that a top was commenting on around why people come to the scene (and D/s) but ...
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Wednesday, April 23rd, 2008
How amazing.
I think I can safely say that folks were challenged and learned and came away with food for thought.
Many thanks to all that showed up and to those who had good intent but were unable to attend. A lot of the women who attended the first one were present ...
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Wednesday, April 23rd, 2008
One of the attendees took some notes and agreed to have them published. Wasn't that kind?
There's some good food for thought in them. Questions that deserve to be answered. Tasty.
Many thanks for the generosity.
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Tuesday, April 15th, 2008
I have one word: LEECHES
It was cruel and terrible and fun. Would I have really done it? On some days I thought I would. But to do it I'd have to deal with the fuckers. Topping myself to mindfuck another is meeeeeeesssssed UP!
Remind me to tell you the story of ...
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Tuesday, April 15th, 2008
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Invite others to join us or distribute this link: http://tinyurl.com/3t3yw
This is the first in a series of serious conversations about D/s
On April 22, 2008 the second of an intended quarterly series of D/s Dinner/salons will take place. The intent is to come together ...
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