Archive for the ‘Education’ Category

Learning Successful D/s

Monday, August 31st, 2009

Those of us consciously walking a path of intentional and consistent D/s have come across times when we wonder about our personal capacities and those of the people with whom we have association. We seek inside ourselves, we go to conferences, read books, mentor, attend workshops, munches, review Leather history, ...

Scheduling the Mayhem

Monday, April 20th, 2009

Graciousness! Have you LOOKED at all the madness going on? I don't know about you, but I'm starting to schedule all my costume changes NOW. There's just so much to do! The full schedule of events is online now with more content being added all the time. Some of the highlights include:

Visual Hawtness

Saturday, March 7th, 2009

Loving Mayhemeven as I spin into madness with all the meetings and organizing. Did you know Mayhem has a FetLife group? This is a thing of beauty that has come out of all of this.  Elaine Miller does hot graphics work. The ass my latex gloved hand is on? A thing ...

Info Out: The history of BDSM

Thursday, March 5th, 2009

REALLY looking forward to going to this with an elder kinkster friend of mine. The Art of Loving, a retailer of adult products here in Vancouver, presents the History of Consensual Sadomasochism, a presentation by Peter Tupper. History like you never learned it in school! From the marriage rites of ancient ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-03-02

Monday, March 2nd, 2009

What a week. All about prepping and going to to South Plains LeatherFest and International Master/slave weekend. And lots of working on Mayhem. And planning MORE things like the next D/s Dinner/salon and my fourth annual Sexy Sauna B-Day Bathouse party. I seem to just keep adding things to the schedule. The ...

BlackBeat 2009 Essay Contest & Scholarship

Wednesday, February 18th, 2009

Essay Contest & Scholarship Never attended a Black BEAT Conference? Playful Fashions, proudly announces it's second Essay Contest Scholarship for one creative person to attend Black BEAT 09! The winner will receive a general registration scholarship/package ( $150 value) to attend Black BEAT 09's Caribbean Theme Conference, August 13-16 in Maryland. The ...

Notes: From Top Shelf

Wednesday, February 18th, 2009

So I go to this thing which is a monthly conversation among Dominants. Frankly, it's among males Dominants and me. Very interesting. MEN. **sigh** It's good because the perspective is different and as a whole this group of people has thought about things differently than I have. I think I have more reference ...

Info Out: Leather Leadership Conference Scholarships

Tuesday, February 3rd, 2009

LLC XIII - 2009 Scholarships now available! The board of the Leather Leadership Conference, Inc. is pleased to announce that it is offering 15 full scholarships to cover the cost of registration to the up-coming LLC-XIII in Atlanta, the weekend of April 3-5, 2009. Applications are accepted until February 24. Those ...

Where to find me in 2009…

Friday, January 16th, 2009

Barely into the New Year and I've got many a plan up my sleeve already. Which surprises even me given the events of the fall. In September I had major surgery (I was sick when I was at the conference) and have just returned to work now. But I'm still being ...

Thursday, January 15th, 2009

A Weekend Event for LeatherWomen all past, present and future women of any orientation or experience level welcome http://canadianmayhem.com/

A tool for Masters (and Dominants)

Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

This makes how many posts in one day?! YEESH! And I still haven't written about the weekend. LOL! To come, to come, to come... Napping in the afternoon means a sleepless night... I came across this from the Ms Development Centre while doing some research and fell in love with the ...

Leather Traditions – Weekend for Dominants Approaches

Saturday, November 15th, 2008

I'm starting to feel excited! My first trip to San Fran! I'll be arriving on Thursday, November 20, for Leather Traditions, a weekend intensive for Dominants which goes from the Friday to the Sunday. It's got an application/reference process to get in and is limited to 25 people. I think it ...

Age Play hits the bookshelf

Tuesday, August 26th, 2008

[caption id="" align="alignleft" width="135" caption="Age Play by Lee Harrington - Published by Greenery Press"][/caption] I've got Littles in my life. And I've been known to haul out my own pre-pubescent bad-babysitter to torment those within my focus. In February 2008 I wet to a fab session facilitated by Lee, and ...

My D/s Syllybus for BlackBeat

Monday, August 11th, 2008

SO EXCITED! Here's my planned schedule for BlackBeat so far:

Continuing the journey into D/s M/s

Friday, August 8th, 2008

Took a serious break from my learning path this year. Life indeed what happens to you while you're busy making other plans. I committed myself at the beginning of the year to expanding my understanding, skill and network of people - locally and afield - in the area of Dominance/submission and ...

The only conference of its kind in North America

Friday, August 1st, 2008

Soon I'll be on my way to Black Beat. A conference I've been wanting (and fearing) to attend for five years or so. http://www.blackbeatinc.org/ I can't wait to surround myself with black kinksters. To be able to walk into a space where I don't have to explain so many things about how ...

Info Out: Theories and Practices of Transgender Embodiment

Tuesday, April 29th, 2008

Transsomatechnics: Theories and Practices of Transgender Embodiment A Transdisciplinary International Conference May 1- 3, 2008  - SFU Harbour Centre This conference seeks to include a wide range of innovative scholarship, public policy, grassroots activism, socio-political analysis and artistic production in the field of transgender studies. We will consider work from any discipline or ...

Bang 4 the Buck and D/s Archetypes

Thursday, March 13th, 2008

How much fun was THAT! I've never been to Bang 4 the Buck. And being in the presence of over 200 women all lathered up and scantily dressed was certainly this side of heaven. Saturday's workshop was illuminating as I have frequently found Midori's sessions to be. And as always I am ...

On my bedside table – OK, floor…

Monday, March 10th, 2008

Currently I've got - as always - several on the go. In no particular order: 1. Black Wine - Candace Jane Dorsey 2. The Value in the Valley - Iyanla Vanzant 3. Bitch Goddess - edited by Pat Califia & Drew Campbell 4. Owned, Reflections of a Submissive - Toya 5. The Ethical Slut ...

Leather Reign Sessions

Wednesday, February 13th, 2008

What a good time. I feel more balanced and centred and grounded than I have in a while. I'm inspired to continue the conversation live and in person through D/s dinners. Anyone interested? So in addition to the several sessions described in the list below, I also did ...