What I’m trying to get a handle on for myself is whether all the “feeling” and annecdotal eveidence has “truth” to it.

A masculinized person argued to me that the easy of aquiring medical intervention compared to in the past meant that the butches of the past had no choices and so presented incompletely. That those butches in days gone by were actually trans all along. That the reason there seemed to be so much transitioning is because people were finally able to get the intervention they required. This person also went on to dirparage and complain about the medical system and how the controls currently were too ridgid. “Thank goodness for the internet!” was the declaration. Apparently one can aquire “T” as well as tips on how to fool the docs into prescribing it without having to undergo ALL the checks and balances that the medical system has put into place.

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I signed a piece of paper the night I went to the public consultation and was sent this update today.

There was survey in WORD format attached to the message. If you want a copy, message me.

Thank you for your attendance and input at the feasibility study Town Hall meeting on November 23 and thank you for offering to help get more input from our various communities.

To date we have heard from over 600 individuals within the communities through 13 focus groups, two town hall meetings and an online survey. Although there has been a fairly broad base of participation, with some common themes emerging so far, we want to enhance the input for phase I and with your help we can get a good sampling of the views and opinions in our communities.

Here are some ways you can help in the coming weeks:

– contact your friends, colleagues and networks and encourage them to complete the online survey by following the links at www.supportthecentre.com

– make it part of your conversations with friends, over coffee or a social evening – then send in the attached paper survey with a summary of your discussions. Let us know if you need paper copies of the survey and we’ll get them to you.

Here is what we have done since the Nov 23 meeting:

– 250 paper copies of the survey were printed and distributed the day after the November 23 meeting

– the online survey timeline has been extended until Dec 20

– 200plus paper surveys hve been distributed through personal contacts from the Nov 23 meeting

- arrangements were made with Xtra West(circulation 30,000) fto include the survey in the December 6 issue for tearout/completion and drop off by any community member.

Further actions may be taken by members of the project steering group at their next meeting on Dec 11.

As the feasibility study continues to March 31, 2007, there will be further opportunities for community consultation based on input form phase 1.

Sincerely,

Betty Baxter, Facilitator, Phase 1

 

Well. That was an excersize in frustration. There were about 40 people present at the meeting and I think the key message sent was that the process was somewhat flawed and not as inclusive as could be possible.

Fuuuuuck I really hope that the online survey carries weight. Like a lot. Here are the numbers for some of the other meetings:

Youth 2
People of Colour 0
Business 2
Women 6
Survey 500+

Scary.

So are people choosing to go online instead of going in person? Really?
Did you fill out the survey? Do you have faith in the process?
Does it matter?

There must be more than 500 interested people in the community. I raised that last night.

Questioned whether an organization that was unable to get the word out was the one to be building the Centre. The facilitatir said that they had 200 members. Again I question reach and relevance. I don’t know who was on the steering committee, but questions of representation and networks were also raised.

Regardless, IMHO, a centre is an important thing. And while I might choose not to use it, like libraries and schools, I think it is worth paying taxes for. 

 

I fucked up and missed the persons of colour meeting on Thursday

*head thump*

I plan on going to the Town Hall this week.

 

New York Plans to Make Gender Personal Choice
By DAMIEN CAVE
Published: November 7, 2006
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/11/07/nyregion/07gender.html?_r=2&adxnnl=1&oref=slogin&adxnnlx=1163019162-gVQAspKGY1gOp2p+JPitcQ

Separating anatomy from what it means to be a man or a woman, New York City is moving forward with a plan to let people alter the sex on their birth certificate even if they have not had sex-change surgery.

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I keep forgetting to post this. We all know how important it is for members of the queer community in the lower mainland to get out and participate in this study.

Now go mark your calendars!
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We have the opportunity to tell municipal/provincial and federal governments what we want in a LGTB centre and the opportunity to actually get a new space accessible for ALL, new programming…whatever you can imagine our community needs.

So far less than 1 % of the queer population in the lower mainland has come out to focus groups, a townhall type meeting or filled out the online survey. there are still some focus groups, one more townhall meeting and the online survey for those folks that would rather not go to a meeting. if there isn’t enough input for the feasibilty study it’s very possible we will lose this opportunity forever.

thanks for taking the time,
kc

~~~ -The Centre is conducting a Feasibility Study to determine if Vancouver?s LGTB communities need and have the capacity to develop and maintain a new cultural community centre for the LGTB communities and our allies.

The first part of the study is a broad-based consultation with the communities this fall. The calendar below lists a number of Focus Groups for various population groups within the communities. This is an open process ? anyone can take part!

Call or email The Centre and sign up for a Focus Group to talk about your needs and ideas for a cultural community centre. All groups are trans-inclusive.

There are also two opportunities to come to a public meeting to learn about the study and share your thoughts!

Public Meeting — November 2, 7 pm – Gordon Neighbourhood House

Public Meeting ? November 23, 7 pm ? Aboriginal Friendship Centre

Focus groups ? by pre-registration as space is limited!!
All are welcome to attend the public meetings!!

To register call or email The Centre at 604-684-5307 or executiveassistant@lgtbcentrevancouver.com
October 2006 ?call/email to register
October 25 (Wed) 4:30 ? 6:30pm Focus Group for LGTB youth

October 26 (Thurs) 4:30 ? 6:30pm Focus Group for LGTB and allied health and social service providers and organizations
October 30 (Mon) 6:30 ? 8:30pm Focus Group for gay men

November 2006 ?venues are still being finalized ?call/email to register!
November 2 (Thurs) 2 ? 4 pm – Focus Group for LGTB people living with disabilities and chronic conditions

November 2 (Thurs) 7 ? 9 pm – Town Hall Meeting ? all welcome!!

November 6(Mon) 6:30 ? 8:30 pm – Focus Group for trans communities

November 9 (Thurs) 6:30 ? 8:30 pm – Focus Group for ageing and older LGTB people

November 16 (Thurs) 4:30 ? 6:30pm – Focus Group for two spirited people

November 16 (Thurs) 7 ?9 pm – Focus Group for LGTB people of colour

November 20 (Mon) 6:30 ? 8:30pm – Focus Group for bisexuals

November 23 (Thurs) 7 ? 9 pm – Town Hall Meeting ? all welcome!!

November 30 (Thurs) 6:30 ? 8:30 pm ? Allies of LGTB people

Want to talk to us online?? Go to www.supportthecentre.com and click on the link to get started on our online survey.

The feasibility study is possible due to funding from the City of Vancouver

 

Having just come back from Gender Odyssey this conversation feels really relevant. There were folks there from ALL along the continuums of gender, biology and sexual orientation. And the intersections! Whew! Among the sessions I attended was “Partners and Transfolk” and “Partners – Am I Still a Lesbian”)

Quote:
Am I Still a Lesbian workshop description
Have you entered what you thought was a lesbian relationship only to find that your partner identifies as transgendered or as a man? Perhaps your partner came to a trans identity in the midst of your relationship and you?re not quite sure how things are gonna shake out. Have you had your socks knocked off by a transman but don’t know what this means to your out-and-proud lesbian identity? Our identities as lesbians are often complicated as we understand the identity of our trans partner and, sometimes more so, when the world perceives us as heterosexual. Lesbian-identified partners often face issues of invisibility on multiple levels. Why (or) is it important for others to see us as lesbian? Can we still be lesbians? Will our partner be supportive? Does our identity as a lesbian have to change if our partner is FTM or trans? Come and share your experience relating to these and other issues.


It was noted in the session that the trend of new butches being few and far between and of older butches transitioning is being noted across the US. Being as there wasn’t much representation from Canada, I can’t say what that looks like here at home. Among those who were identifying as lesbians, dykes or female-bodied queers, there was fear that the women we love would decide to become T-men. That’s a scary place and at least I know that I am not alone. There are others who are concerned about loosing the language of their personal identities, their connection to the community of women and the visibility they have fought for by disappearing into what appears to be a “straight couple. It was an amazing conversation.
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Before I dive into this post I want to make it perfectly clear that I am NOT transphobic. I am also going to be EXTREMEMLY clumsy in this post I think so please read it with a gentle eye and tuck the urge to flame or post “strongly” along side the consideration that I am grasping at how to make myself understood.

So.

The question this article brings to my mind is: Where are all the butches? I see SO few young people (18 – 30+) who identify as butch. That is to say towards the “masculine” side of a polarized gender spectrum. A drugless state which I regard as being somewhere between female gendered and transitioned male.
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Becoming a boy & back again
IDENTITY / You don’t become a boy because you’re sick of fighting girl stereotypes
Julia Gonsalves / Xtra / Thursday, June 08, 2006

http://www.xtra.ca/public/viewstory.aspx…B_TEMPLATE_ID=7

I know you from afar. You’ve got great sneakers and great sideburns and a great blend of boy/girl grace and I just found out that you’ve changed your name. You kept the first letter, like a lot of people do, but you changed it and I am unexpectedly filled with a feeling I can’t quite place. I feel jealous, for one. I realize there is something you have that I want, and it isn’t the ability to call myself a boy.

I was talking to a friend about how we’re both attracted to trans films but we find them hard to watch because they stir up shit that we’d rather suppress. We were talking a bit sheepishly about how we’ve both picked out boy names and flirted with the possibility of shedding female gender. I was at my closest when I worked for Inside Out film fest, spending time in a space frequented by artists with the most (perceived) freedom to fuck norm identities. Previewing trans stories on screen made them feel more real, or more common, like each time you played a tape you multiplied the experience. I was at my closest when it seemed a lot of other people were, too.
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I’m not the only one thinking about this and there is lots of talk in the community in general. Someone suggested that the non-profit use some of it’s money to set up smaller businesses which might, if successful, fund the parent organization. Well…

*standing on the shards of the soapbox*
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I’m still thinking about this.

Who is going to pay for the things we all like to do as a community? The parades, the marches, the dances, the play parties, the street events, the printed communications, etc.

From the Vancouver Pride Society website:

    * Approximate Expenditures 2005 = $75,133

    * Insurance for Pride events: $30,000
    * City of Vancouver: $18,000 (police, transit, park permits, sanitation)
    * First Aid & Disability: $4,500 (BC Ambulance, Disabled Access)
    * Festival Equipment: $25,000 (stage, tents, speakers, stereo equip)
    * Communications: $7,500 (printers, graphics, advertising, website)

My question is: WHO IS GOING TO PAY FOR THIS?

Hell, it is a matter of public record (2006 Celebration Grants Recommendations, Spring Deadline) that the City of Vancouver provided funding for both the Vancouver Pride Society and the Vancouver Dyke March. If there was tons of extra money floating around to pay for these expenditures, they wouldn’t be approaching government for support. And since government can’t/doesn’t fund the whole thing, and because the community wants/needs free/low-cost events, then these groups go out to the corporate world to find additional funds. And like patrons to a queer event who want a good show for their money, those corporate guys want value too. Like humans, they have egos and those egos want recognotion. And those events can very quickly find that their capacity to raise those funds is diluted if they do not have control over their name because someone else is using or devaluing it.

Now. If folks want to dig deep and show up to everything and donate on top of production costs so that members of our community do not have to subsidize by volunteering… then fine. I say, fuck the trademarkign and let the people have it. But that is NOT the reality.

And I request another model that is viable in place of the imperfect one that we have currently. And until we have it then I can see no other option than to *try* to dig deep and *try* show up to everything and *try* donate on top of it and to support organizations who find themselves having to do the direct negotiation of prostitution in private, so that they can earn the lucre that allows us to feast at the table they are trying to spread.

*steps off soapbox and proceeds to hack it to pieces*

Thank you for reading.

 

Folks in Vancouver are starting to make a stink about Pride being trademarked.

OH PUH-LEESE!

If there was enough money or interest in the community to support events like Pride, then they wouldn’t be run by volunteer organizations that have to sell their collective blood so that we have an opportunity to BITCH at them.

The World Wildlife Foundation fought and won against the World Wrestling Federation. A non-profit, run in large part by volunteers, looking to ensure that the organizational reputation they were building was kept intact. There is nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all.

“Pride” is gaining in it’s reputation world-wide. And the organizations that are working hard to ensure that it is not diluted or co-opted deserve respect and not grief. Building a brand takes time and the fact that tourist information from a commercial ally isn’t explicit about the nature doesn’t mean all that much. At least it is being promoted.

The pride organizations world-wide have the right to try to control the reputation they have worked for over the years. There are commercial, individual and organizational opportunists that take advantage of that reputation to produce or host events that run concurrently or consecutively. I think that speaks to the desirability and power of what’s been built. Why can’t we nurture, support and celebrate that instead of getting our knickers in a knot?

“An apple a day…” doesn’t mean that one should haul out the credit card and head down to the computer store. And it’s not “Pride” the concept that is being trademarked but the annual series of similarily-themed events which occur world-wide.

And in any case, isn’t it better that queers own the word? Would it be better if it was owned by a large commercial entity? ‘Cause you know they would be busy suing all of us instead of politely asking us.

 

Lesbian teens more likely to attempt suicide: study: Depression and harassment are factors

Vancouver Sun
Tuesday, May 30, 2006
Page: A1 / FRONT
Section: News
Byline: Glenn Bohn
Source: Vancouver Sun

Lesbian teens are nearly five times more likely to attempt suicide than heterosexual girls, according to a B.C. survey discussed at a national conference of public health experts in Vancouver Monday.

The survey found 38 per cent of lesbian girls and 30.4 per cent of bisexual girls said they had attempted suicide in the previous year, compared to 8.2 per cent of heterosexual girls.

The results were from a new analysis of a 2003 survey of 30,000 students between grades 7 and 12 done by the B.C.-based McCreary Centre Society, which asked students if they had attempted suicide in the previous year. Continue reading »

 

My butch collegue was OUTRAGED about this…

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Leslie Feinberg
The Maggie Benston lecture series at the SFU
Women’s Studies Department 30th Anniversary

broadcasts on Shaw TV channel 4
( lower mainland only )
Saturday April 22, 2006
@ 3:30 pm, 11:00 pm*, and 12:00 am ( midnight )
*normally @ 10 pm – moved to 11 pm this week for Hockey playoffs

Feinberg is well-known in the U.S. and many other parts of the world as an activist who works to help forge a strong bond between the lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans communities. As a trade unionist, anti-racist and socialist, Feinberg also organizes to build strong bonds of unity between these struggles and those of movements in defense of oppressed nationalities, women, disabled, and the working class movement as a whole. Feinberg has worked for more than 25 years in defense of the sovereignty, self-determination and treaty rights of Native nations and for freedom of political prisoners in the U.S. Leslie is an internationalist and has been part of the anti-Pentagon movement since the U.S. war against Vietnam.

Leslie Feinberg’s Publications:

2000 Stone Butch Blues : Triangle Classic Edition
1998 Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue (Beacon Press)
1997 Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman (paperback, Beacon)
1996 Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to RuPaul (Beacon Press)
Stone Butch Blues (Firebrand Books)

 

I recently found out about the 2007 Fiert? Canada Pride / Region 7 conference. A meeting of International Pride organizations. http://www.vancouverpride.ca/fcp/

And after continuing to dig around (who knew there was a Pride Celebration in Iquauit!? http://www.iqaluitpride.ca/) the decisions the board made around trade marking made even more sense to me. This wasn’t a decision being made by one community but a global movement that is seemingly well organized and growing. I’m glad that the power of the name is being retained within the community. I’d fucking SCREAM if Pride Pepsi was sold on shelves or at events.

And after digging around a bit more I discovered that there is going to be a community reception, so I headed out to meet the international queers.

Fierte Canada Pride / Region 7 Conference Community Reception
Friday, March 30

Meet representatives from Prides from across Canada and hear Senator Larry Campbell present the welcome address at 6pm. Appetizers will be served.

Price: $5 suggested donation
Venue: The Oasis
Address: 1230 Thurlow St (@ Davie St)

It was lovely. Missed Larry Campbell speakign however *shrug*

Met A___ and A___ on the street as I was headed over. I’ll let here tell you about the urine sample test tube races in the Oasis.It’s really too bad they didn’t join us on the excursion. It was GOOD FUN.

A group went to a place called Samba with a bunch of the delegates. All you can eat meat in 10 different flavours plus a salad bar. WHOA!

Then it was off to lick with a pile of the female delegates. There was a Burlesque show, we got in for half price and got out first drinlk free. I flirted up an AMAZING storm. And ended up being pretty dirty with a VERY cute boi I’ve seen around but not met.YUM!

Today, me and my hangover crashed the conference. I went to the Gender session. Lukas Walther was talking about Trans inclusion and outreach.

Good times. The international conference is being hosted here in Vancouver next year. They expect 3000 people! It is being run by a newly formed NFP That includes members of the Pride Board. Apparently ther is lots of room to join.

 

After coming out to Vancouver from my home town of Edmonton in 1997 I made a commitment to myself to fully explore all the threads of kinky that had been present in my relationships but for which I had no language.

I dated this woman for a while who knew I was kinky. We discussed it, and it was evident from the books and porn on my bedroom shelves and from the toys littering my bedroom. Lots of steamy sex, some D/s dynamics and no kink later… it became evident that things would not be continuing much farther (for reasons that were bigger than just to the two of us).

On one of our last occasions together we were in bed and got into a heated discussion. And what pops out of her maw? Anger around my being kinky, suspicions about an intent to abuse her, disgust about my toys, and a score of vittriolic accusations.

Now some of that was clearly HER stuff. But other bits of it affected me then and continue to do so. My conclusion was that it was reckless of me to get involved with her. And unfair of me to think that she would either come around or be OK with me seeking my bliss elsewhere.

Would I bed a right wing Christian fundamentalist with white supremecist parents? Possibly. Would I do it sober and more than once? Not likely. Both of us would have parts of our being that would have to go unsatisfied, or be buried, or ignored…

It reminds me of male crossdressers who get involved with or marry women who either don’t know or who have limited understanding. It leads to heartache and acrimony. And, often, separation.

I’ll NEVER find myself in that position again. It might mean passing up on relationships with great people. It might mean that there are experiences I’ll never have. It definately means a smaller pool of people from which to locate partnerships. But I think, the chances of happy success are ultimately better. And more satisfying.

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