Archive for the ‘Dykes, Sapphists & Other Cousins’ Category

I’m Too Busy Being Gay

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

Looking around I said to myself the other day: Dear Laundry: You know I love your freshness when you are done, and the clean variety you offer. Without a question the site of you piled in a corner awaiting my attentions plagues my mind every time I search for something to wear. ...

It’s Pride. How Gay are you?

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

I'm planning to be a big 'ole queer during Vancouver's Pride. There's all kinds of LeatherDyke events I'm attending during August. So... Stockholm Pride has this nifty thing that asks "How Hetero are you?" based on an analysis of one's Twitter feed. Quote "the way our fellow humans judge us can ...

LeatherDyke Pride in Vannie & QueerErotica too

Tuesday, July 21st, 2009

My plan is to be an out proud homo this Pride. It will be the first spent together for me and my boi and I want to soak up all the gay I can possibly stand. Below is a smattering of where you can expect to find me over the coming ...

Vancouver’s LGTB Centre hosts community Coffee & Conversation

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

Vancouver's LGTB Centre is hosting the second in a series of community "Coffee & Conversation" sessions on the Drive, May 21 @6pm. I'll be there will you?

Card carrying Bi-sexual…

Tuesday, December 2nd, 2008

This made me giggle a lot... For all of our bi-sexual friends...  get yours! http://www.sexualityeducation.com/bisexual-id-card.html

Databases + gay marriage = FAIL

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

Here's a link to an interesting blog post that speaks about the consequences in a very geeky way. Gay marriage: the database engineering perspective There are various objections to expanding the conventional, up-tight, as-God-intended "one man, one woman" notion of marriage but by far the least plainly bigoted ones I am aware ...

Prop8 Includes Black Queers

Monday, November 10th, 2008

I am SO fucking frustrated. How is it that I am hear shit from queers about how "they" could vote for a Black man but "black people" didn't vote for Prop8? SAY WHAT?! Like, even if one does the math and assumed that EVERY black person voted (including those who inellgible like children), and EVERY black person ...

Black Men Playing With Men

Sunday, June 1st, 2008

May I stand beside you and help hold space as an ally? I asked this of a woman on a forum who was being given a hard, hard time by some of the members. As a dyke, I found the conversation disturbing and alienating. It reminded me of conversations with white people ...

Aging in Place for Queers

Thursday, April 10th, 2008

The boom, in all its cohorts, hits homes; Whether for gays and lesbians or pub owners, niche markets being planned for those seeking a place to retire

Bang 4 the Buck and D/s Archetypes

Thursday, March 13th, 2008

How much fun was THAT! I've never been to Bang 4 the Buck. And being in the presence of over 200 women all lathered up and scantily dressed was certainly this side of heaven. Saturday's workshop was illuminating as I have frequently found Midori's sessions to be. And as always I am ...

Community Protocols

Sunday, March 9th, 2008

I was birthed into public BDSM/kink/leather and have grown up in Vancouver. Prior to that I was practicing D/s in private in Alberta without context or community or vernacular. I just made the shit up. When I moved to Vancouver and came out publicly into BDSM, I looked around and ...

FireJock.com – butch, black and fighter of fires…

Wednesday, October 10th, 2007

Whew! Someone call 911. I got something burning that she could put out (or fan).... http://www.firejock.com/ A great shot of Juliet and her wife: http://www.rogueamazon.com/ LAWD.

The Outsiders: Queers of Colour in Community

Sunday, October 7th, 2007

I'd be interested to hear if anyone has feedback on XtraWest's story that I was interviewed for: The Outsiders - Feeling invisible and invalidated by Vancouver's white queer community Natasha Barsotti / Xtra West - Cover Story / Wednesday, September 26, 2007 Link ~> http://tinyurl.com/2nlb9v

Book – Butch is a Noun

Thursday, September 6th, 2007

Just working my way through this book now. Loving it. Really. I agree with Carol Queen. It makes me fall in love with butches all over again. Check out a reading by the author: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qv89wbZHzNQ

Trans Inclusion in Dyke Space

Thursday, June 7th, 2007

Recently I've been part of online discussions about what happens when the conect of women's only space gets moved online. What happens when a group of "women" begin to speak about how transitional persons touch their lives? I'll tell ya.... all hell breaks loose. People step forward who are moving ...

The Centre – An Update

Tuesday, June 5th, 2007

In related news: ~~~~~~~~~~~ Farewell Reception for Donna Wilson You may have heard that after 12 years, Donna Wilson, The Centre's Executive Director is leaving to pursue new adventures. Please join board members, staff, volunteers, colleagues and friends as we come together to celebrate Donna's many wonderful contributions in developing a solid LGTB Community ...

Australian pub bars heterosexuals

Thursday, May 31st, 2007

Australian pub bars heterosexuals A gay pub in the Australian city of Melbourne wins the right to ban heterosexuals. http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/em/fr/-/2/hi/asia-pacific/6697469.stm Huh. Includes women too. Austrailia has some pretty decent human rights law. Interesting to see this at play. Very interesting.

The Centre – Feasibility Study V

Thursday, May 31st, 2007

The Centre's AGM and Feasibility Study Open House? Notice of the 2007 Annual General Meeting of the Pacific Foundation for the Advancement of Minority Equality* Members of PFAME please take notice of the forthcoming AGM: Date: Tuesday, June 12, 2007 Time: 7:00 p.m. Place: St. John?s United Church, 1401 Comox Street (at Broughton), Vancouver, ...

Bad Dates in our Community

Friday, February 2nd, 2007

So I was having a conversation with a dear friend of mine last night about personal and community responsibility and how that ties into ones integrity. The question at hand had to do with bad dates of the moment; individuals who have patterns of behaviour which might lead to a bad ...

Becoming a Boy and Back Again V

Friday, December 29th, 2006

yeah... I was thinking about what I wrote. If there is an evolution or a movement that is empowering or about discovery... it's really not for me as an affected person to stand in the way. That is not my intent. It's really not so much that I am invested in a ...