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A Day Without Art & Culture?

Wednesday, September 9th, 2009

[caption id="attachment_1793" align="alignright" width="320" caption="A day without art is grey indeed."][/caption] . Arts Strike - Silent Grey Rally Wednesday, September 9 at 11:30am Look. The times are tough. When one looks across the globe there is evidence of the hardship that greed and bad judgment has produced. The people that suffer are the people that ultimately ...

Nggrfg – A Fringe Festival event

Wednesday, September 9th, 2009

You read that one right. Take one Small Brown Package born on the Canadian Prairies ensure equal parts of black and gay, mix with epithets and whole lot of talent and you get Barend Mackenzie. Xtra West recently did a wonderful article on him and the show. Having Natasha Barsotti on staff ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-09-07

Monday, September 7th, 2009

What a week! Less than a month to go for Lee Harrington's D/s Psychology Intensive and there are just  few weekend seats left. YAY! The 5th D/s Dinner Salon has been boked for the weekend of the 12th. Less than a week a way. Historically the seats are gone within 24 - ...

Exposing Fictionalized Private Lives

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

First in a planned series of writings inspired by TED : more info :Do you think about the lives of our kink/fetish heroes? The more you see, and have access to in terms of images, and video and conferences and blogs and LiveJournal, and Twitter and Facebook and FetLife for ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-08-31

Monday, August 31st, 2009

Mama has been busy on the social media networks this week! The state of the Arts continues to be on my mind and apparently thoughts around D/s and that sweet butch of mine. Increasingly I am finding interesting people and posts on Twitter. The problem is that there is SO much. ...

Learning Successful D/s

Monday, August 31st, 2009

Those of us consciously walking a path of intentional and consistent D/s have come across times when we wonder about our personal capacities and those of the people with whom we have association. We seek inside ourselves, we go to conferences, read books, mentor, attend workshops, munches, review Leather history, ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-08-24

Monday, August 24th, 2009

What a week. After waiting and waiting the arts and culture community of BC has finally received the news everyone dreaded to hear. The cuts are coming, and the cuts are BIG. Here we are less than six months to the Olympics and the cultural fabric of the province is being ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-08-17

Monday, August 17th, 2009

The Lee Harrington workshop is going well. Registrations are coming in and I think it is going to be a REALLY outstanding group of people who show up. There are still seats available. I'm hoping the all get snapped up by as many people from my home town as possible. ...

D/s Psychology Intensive with Lee Harrington

Monday, August 10th, 2009

Doing relationships with intentional power dynamics October 2, 3, 4 in Vancouver BC Canada Still moving the furniture are and am considering paint colours over here in my corner of the WWW. In the meantime, I'm doing this really cool thing with Elaine Miller. I'm bringing Lee Harrington into town (Vancouver, BC, ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-08-09

Sunday, August 9th, 2009

As I get older I see beauty in unexpected places. And the beauty I was already aware of takes on a different significance. The meaning of time has shifted. And with it my perspective. This comes as a shock to me. What I know. What I think I know. Where I've ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-08-03

Monday, August 3rd, 2009

SO EXCITED! The news for this week is that I've engaged Lee Harrington to come to Vancouver for a 3-day D/s Intensive. Happening October 2, 3, 4, it is going to be QUITE the fabulous thing. I'm prepared to loose my shirt on it because it would cost me about as ...

I’m Too Busy Being Gay

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

Looking around I said to myself the other day: Dear Laundry: You know I love your freshness when you are done, and the clean variety you offer. Without a question the site of you piled in a corner awaiting my attentions plagues my mind every time I search for something to wear. ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-07-27

Monday, July 27th, 2009

So much I could say about the week that has gone by... Really. And then I look at my tweets for a week. What caught my eye, what I had time to toss out to the world. And I think to myself... My mind is actually a lot like my ...

Vancouver’s Bathhouse Night for Women

Thursday, July 23rd, 2009

Being a sex-positive dyke, I've moved in a lot of spaces, queer and str8 where Eros abounds. But as a woman, the opportunity to to do what the boys do isn't really available. So I made something happen in my city. And in two other cities in Canada, other women ...

It’s Pride. How Gay are you?

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

I'm planning to be a big 'ole queer during Vancouver's Pride. There's all kinds of LeatherDyke events I'm attending during August. So... Stockholm Pride has this nifty thing that asks "How Hetero are you?" based on an analysis of one's Twitter feed. Quote "the way our fellow humans judge us can ...

LeatherDyke Pride in Vannie & QueerErotica too

Tuesday, July 21st, 2009

My plan is to be an out proud homo this Pride. It will be the first spent together for me and my boi and I want to soak up all the gay I can possibly stand. Below is a smattering of where you can expect to find me over the coming ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-07-20

Monday, July 20th, 2009

Spending time with my father makes it clear why I'm a CONSENSUAL dominant and watching him interact w/ females reminds me why I'm queer. # Commercial entertainment, & porn go online to increase sustainability. Not the Tribe & community. Why? Does Fetlife help- Really? # Black people, on average, are more likely ...

Outing within our Culture

Saturday, July 18th, 2009

One of the things I love about parties with a dress code is that all persons present take a ~risk~ in being there. If I see my dentist... well, then both of us are in a position to out the other. There is some safety in that. When a member of ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-07-13

Monday, July 13th, 2009

Last week there was a strong Olympic presence. This week it's all about being Black. Well... mostly. On the queer front, I went to a screening of the pre-production, final cut of Aerlyn Weissman's film for Out on Screen the Portside. Good film. You should see it. Can I say how ...

Snapshot of the week ending : 2009-07-06

Monday, July 6th, 2009

The Olympics occurring in Vancouver next year have been on my mind a lot. Maybe because the frenetic pace of gearing up has been increasing at my work place.I link and link and link to stories. Simultaneously, I see stories about movement forward in the sex-positive world. I link and link ...