Service Topping
March 18, 2009 – 8:21 pmYou provide the services of a top as directed to those who request it. Nothing wrong with that.
I suppose there may be a few ways of looking at that:
There are those who would find what you do to be a type of bottoming in that you are following direction that is provided – sort of bottoming from the top. Most tops have done this in the past and will do it in the future to some degree or another.
There are those who would find what you do to be a perfect way to learn about how to top while figuring out what your personal, authentic style is. Lots of people go through that.
There are those who would say that what you do is lazy and opportunistic, and say it with a great big appreciative grin. It can be tough work to top!
There are those who would look at what you do and envy you that you are skilled and confident enough to provide a variety of women with good experiences.
And there are those…. blah, blah, blah…
The question is: are both you and your partner/s basically content?