Lady Kona, Nubian Imp & Tormentrix

Notes from D/s Dinner/salon #2

Tough night for me. And that’s the truth not the hype. I went in feeling physically unwell and found myself being psychically attacked. Ah well… skunks have no idea about the impact on the world around them either. Which doesn’t excuse but it is the fact.

NOTES from D/s Dinner/salon April 22, 2008

Here are some of my notes before I checked out:

The thing that makes deep D/s possible is intimacy built overtime

Deep D/s is never casual so it is not something that is done at parties. Those who are watching end up having a sense of wanting to rescue

Deep submission is the reflection of a rearrangement of value systems so that they align with that of the dominant. Question: is that consent?

What is responsibility?

What are the ethics of pursuing one’s D/s objective in the balance of someone else’s viewpoint?

Long term goal(?) of a top: shifting of the desire of a bottom over time so that it parallels that of the top…

Sometimes corporeal action needs to be done in order to take a submissive out of their head and take them to a place that they want to be.