It's a team sport

I’ve always said that SM is a team sport. Except for when it’s not

I love lending energy through appreciative watching, by playing lube/glove/condom girl or full on cheering/egging on the action.

I love a good group scene. The planning over cocktails and pizza; the psychological tormenting of the victim/s (err… objects of affection); laughter… OH! the laughter!

Regardless of how it goes it’s a bonding thing. Tales to tell in the future and truth to embellish with glee.

And when full on scening isn’t available, I’ve had good fun doing “clinics” wherein skills are exchanged. In my experience there is still much laughter at moments like that.

I recommend them. And if the group you usually hang with seems a bit complacent… find an outsider to bring in and terorrize. Heh.