This past holiday season I bought a binder for my then boi and one for J as gifts. I went online to Title Nine and purchased a “Frog Bra” for each of them – they even made sure it got to me by the day of celebration! Now… the boi is a C cup easily and that thing, which is designed as a sports bra for girls with large chests, works WONDERS. The problem is that the fucker works so well that marks can be left and one of them (I forget which one) complianed of eeling like the nipple was being pushed into the body in a baaad way. You may wish to ask J her thoughts about the one I got for her…
Funny, my current lover and my former boy both LOVE having their tits played with. And I can’t imagine not playing with them frankly. I tend to think of them as nipples and chest rather than chest however ’cause niether of them like thier tits a lot, while confessing to how much pleasure they get.
For me… size ain’t really an issue. the place where I sometimes get fucked up is when a boxer short wearing butch will get all naked. Then I find that some part of me is surprised. No. Shocked. I don’t know what I expect to see (’cause a penis ain’t it) but I really don’t expect to see… well… pubis. Big tits? bring ‘em on. My head can still see the butch. But my brain always takes a second to put together what it sees/doesn’t see related to genitals.
NubianImp Projects strives to: provide forums for advanced education and celebration (to strengthen the bonds within community, tribes and chosen-family) through sex-positive event production aimed at queers and their allies.
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